@drashleyitzhakian: Are you helping your teenager—or accidentally making them doubt themselves? As parents, we want to protect our kids from disappointment, rejection, and failure. So when our teenager comes to us with a problem, our instinct is often to jump in and fix it. But here’s what we sometimes overlook. 👇 When we constantly offer solutions, give unsolicited advice, or take over our teenager’s problems, we may unintentionally send the message: “I don’t think you can handle this without me.” And over time, that can impact their confidence, independence, and willingness to come to us for support. 🧠 Teenagers build confidence through experience, not just reassurance. They need opportunities to: ✔️ Practice problem-solving ✔️ Make age-appropriate decisions ✔️ Navigate uncomfortable emotions ✔️ Learn from mistakes ✔️ Develop trust in their own judgment This doesn’t mean we stop guiding them. It means learning the difference between supporting our teenagers and solving everything for them. And sometimes, the hardest part of parenting is managing OUR discomfort while giving our children room to grow. 💬 What do you find harder: watching your teenager struggle or resisting the urge to fix things? — Dr. Ashley | Clinical Psychologist #ParentingTeens #TeenParenting #ParentingTeenagers #RaisingConfidentKids #TeenConfidence
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Wednesday 28 October 2026 02:56:57 GMT
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Hailey A Spooner :
my son has.told me he doesn't want help and he wants to figure it out on his own.
2026-10-28 05:22:54
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nope :
my reaction is always
wait
then
what are you thinking of doing/ saying or not
then trust
2026-10-28 03:03:20
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