Carrie | Marriage & Intimacy
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Wednesday 28 October 2026 13:43:41 GMT
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maefairfax :
In my defense..he cant ever just give a loving kiss..he wants a full out make out session, and he cant just hug me without his hands going to EVERY spot I DONT want them in..every single time.
2026-10-29 04:38:07
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Masubi4me :
How to divert this to HIS algorithm…
2026-10-29 03:35:58
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Sun-kissedRae 💋 :
I think my past SA trauma also affects the way I feel being touched.. I literally ask what’s wrong with me? I definitely gaslight myself.
2026-11-01 07:19:05
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Alora🎀 :
I get no kind of attention/affection until he wants sex. makes me feel like a piece of meat. and god forbid he needs to put in some consistent work to be able to get my body back into that loving mode. 🙄
2026-10-29 15:10:09
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🎀Jessica Winebrenner🎀 :
I think we just wish sometimes we can just touch kiss and spend time together. We get annoyed when the every time he touches or kisses it turns into that. We aren’t objects.
2026-10-29 10:40:35
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Debbie Peters-Hollar :
With taking care of 90 % of everything and working I was just exhausted and started feeling that itemacy was another job.
2026-10-29 02:22:45
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user5360992311926 :
So how do we talk to them about it?
2026-11-01 06:36:22
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burnafterreadingthis :
right, but he only wants to touch me like that WHEN he wants sex, he can never just rub my back or rub my feet, we can never just cuddle, it's never innocent, that's WHY I feel like that, because I know..
2026-10-31 12:56:51
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McNeill4102 :
I never had words for what I was feeling
2026-10-29 03:14:27
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TreesCatsStars :
I am grateful I am single now. That marriage was the worst experience of my life so far.
2026-11-01 04:38:27
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BrittanyJane🦇 :
also trauma from previous sa etc i believe comes into play heavily for some ppl
2026-10-29 08:30:17
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Tara1436 :
This developes from only being touched when sex is being initiated. When there are no hugs, kisses or soft touches throughout the day, or on nights when you don't feel good or have been stressed out. Touch is only when they want sex. Thats why we begin to resent the touch. because what do you mean you've watched me struggle to survive all day and now you think you can touch me and get sex.
2026-10-31 06:14:14
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user8120494268221 :
I get the opposite
2026-10-31 14:23:16
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lkp :
sometimes when I know I'm expected to have it later that day or night it gives me anxiety and dread
2026-10-30 15:10:07
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lindasee19 :
It because every time my husband even sits on the couch next to me, or tries to hug me, he wants sex.
2026-10-31 04:44:59
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user7881116022285 :
Not anticipating what MIGHT come next. What ALWAYS comes next! Why can't men just be sweet & affectionate without it leading to sex? They can't just enjoy closeness without getting worked up & making a move that then feels like one more thing we have to do before we can relax. It's a bummer 😕
2026-10-30 05:18:15
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Kai :
I don’t like anyone touching me anymore
2026-10-30 05:48:31
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DivineChiwithV :
Sometimes, I just want a back rub. JUST A BACK RUB.
2026-10-30 05:53:29
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BeThechange :
I love my husband but don’t want him touching me
2026-10-30 10:44:02
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GenXDem :
But also, he usually does want more. So it’s also pattern recognition.
2026-10-29 12:10:11
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cloudermilk❌ :
It’s always an expectation. Then I’m made to feel like a horrible person and I’m accused of not loving him or I am disgusted by him. And if I don’t respond to him physically that just “confirms” it for him. So I am doubly pressured. It’s called menopause. If he knew me 30+ years ago the roles would be reversed.
2026-10-29 10:59:55
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sajtharippa97 :
The way women feel about sexual intimacy is the way men feel about emotional intimacy
2026-10-29 06:12:46
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ShellyD 💕 :
Because he is not affectionate outside of the bedroom. He only touches me when we are in the bedroom and he wants sex. So now I dread it. Like you said, an expectation.
2026-10-30 07:52:17
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Jordan :
Men feel the same way whenever their wife wants to talk. They tense up and want to avoid her, bc they are ready to be criticized or given a honey do list.
2026-10-28 17:45:46
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Heather Hernandez :
Why do I feel like this video was meant for me 🫤
2026-10-29 02:41:47
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