What she hasn’t mentioned is how much it cost the sister in law to attend the wedding/hen/ and the cost of the gift. I’m wagering a lot more than £80 she got back for the dress 😂
2026-10-29 12:04:11
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Kyrstie Hogg :
She bought the dress for the bridesmaid, after that it’s up to them what the do with them. In my opinion.
2026-10-28 14:13:28
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Jodie ✨🤍 :
Unless she asked for them back, her right to sell them!
2026-10-28 14:22:18
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Linda May :
for me the bridesmaids dresses are the bridesmaids so if they sell it, thats up to them.
2026-11-01 10:48:09
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C :
I’m clearing out all my daughters baby clothes on vinted, I won’t be going back to refund £3 to each person who gave her an outfit!
2026-10-28 20:51:19
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Grand Wisteria House :
Once you give it to someone it’s theirs. I
2026-10-28 15:27:33
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Sharon Gathercole595 :
Thank her for being your bridesmaid.
2026-11-01 00:32:58
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berryat22 :
Let’s view the bridesmaids dress as a gift, which is essentially what it is. If you were gifted something that you used however no longer found the use for it should you be penalised for selling it or returning it? Nope!
2026-10-28 15:16:23
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Kirsty ⎕ :
80 profit on the dress but how much has the bridesmaid spent on the wedding? the hen (possibly more than one), hotel room where the wedding is, all the other small things needed for the day. my bf paid about 1.5k being a best man 😂 probably more actually
2026-10-29 10:27:55
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Joy Forrest :
It was her dress to do with what she wants.
2026-10-28 14:54:13
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niamhralston :
I told my bridesmaids to do whatever they liked with mine after the wedding. I don’t mind if it got sold
2026-11-01 10:20:09
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user2580223822982 :
paying off a wedding for the next 3 years in madness btw 😂😂😂
2026-11-01 16:03:55
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LMcX86 :
I feel like she probably spent more than £80 to attend the wedding... shoes, make up, bag, cost of the hen nights etc it all adds up attending a wedding. she probably should have waited longer than a week to sell it but maybe shes trying to make back all her money she had to spend attending the wedding 🤷
2026-10-28 15:32:55
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Lose It With Ross :
Unless the bride stated she wanted it back then it’s hers to sell surely?
2026-10-28 14:14:08
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sophie :
I bought my own bridesmaid dress and paid for alterations for my sisters wedding. My mum asked to borrow it to take on holiday and a week after I gave her it my mum sold it on FB and kept the money 😂
2026-10-28 14:40:29
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Lynsey 🏴 :
I'd rather they sell them or pass them on than sit in a wardrobe
2026-10-28 19:28:37
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🐝🩷PammyTait🩷🐝 :
Selling the dress is fine. What should she do ? Leave it in her wardrobe forever ? Being a bridesmaid is expensive.
2026-10-29 09:50:58
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G :
Once your gifted a dress its yours, ive got 3 of them in wardrobe that are no use to me, if my pals made a wee bit of money from theirs good on them go ahead xx
2026-10-29 13:35:29
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Garry Weir :
So you bought the dress for her to hold control over someone. She can do what she likes with it.
2026-10-28 16:02:59
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padz caw :
She can do what she wants with it
2026-10-28 15:49:17
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eastcoasteclecticuk :
sure the bridesmaid spent tons of hen dos etc, it's only £80
2026-10-28 20:14:27
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Sheryl Jolley :
Team sister in law
2026-10-28 15:45:31
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Jade Young :
nah I wouldn't care I encouraged my bridesmaids to sell theirs. Its a gift. no way I would care.
I think jts a cheek to not care about people selling pr stuff but care about this 🤣
2026-10-28 15:30:33
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OutOfOfficeMum💻🏴 :
My view is very much I paid for the dress, it was in my budget then I gifted them to my bridesmaids. it’s up to them what they then do with it? I wouldn’t rush to judge especially in this climate as you don’t know what the SIL financial situation is? The bride chose to clearly take debt to pay for her wedding. Did the SIL pay for her shoes, accessories, hair/make up? Did she spend money on accommodation to stay over? She would have also bought the couple a gift, attended and paid towards hen do’s and potentially stag do if she has a partner or got married? I think the bride definitely needs to let that one slide.
2026-10-28 15:18:50
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Cee :
unless the bride asked for the dresses back I think it belongs to the bridesmaids and up to them what they do with it
2026-10-28 14:14:03
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