@rinispencer: Being outnumbered by a family, isn’t proof you’re wrong. More often than not, this makes you the truth teller in a dysfunctional family system. Which actually makes you the GOAT🤘🏼
I am the problem. They absolutely hate that I defend myself against their gossip. They hate that I wont break bread with the uncle who beats his wife and the cousin who cheats on his wife, regularly. They tell me to get off my high horse but no thanks, I like it up here.
2026-10-28 19:47:39
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Suzy :
Also known as the SCAPEGOAT 😏
2026-10-28 19:26:01
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kelly_not_kellie :
Apparently I’m the problem. So I removed myself from their little click.
2026-10-28 21:46:43
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888PriceT :
I AM THE ENTIRE PROBLEM!! I’m the one who refused to keep quiet about the family pedophile. I’m also the one who refuses to let them forget that they gave him a pass and confront them every time. I see them when they want me to get help and let it go because it was a long time ago. I am the fucking problem.
2026-10-28 18:22:31
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Nana :
I’m the problem 🤷🏾♀️I started questioning the behavior and calling people out for it . They told me to stop because it will tear the whole family apart and I said, “let it break” “I can’t be apart of lies, abuse and manipulation”. Everyone hates me
2026-10-28 20:30:09
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notch :
thats fine they can blame me they've been blaming me forever now and I don't care anymore
2026-10-29 01:37:18
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Squeezer :
I am the problem. I don't tolerate bs
2026-10-28 19:55:40
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Sean D :
They make that one person the problem when they break free of the toxicity and tired of being walked all over.
2026-10-28 19:41:49
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K.LoVesLighT ✌️♥️💡 :
Nope! I am the cycle breaker period! I sure did piss them off! 🔥💯
2026-10-28 19:19:11
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trex🧃 :
Yeah I don’t want to be around my brother who sexually abused me for years or my mum who emotionally and physically abused me my whole life. So I’m the problem.
2026-10-29 00:02:25
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Court✨ :
Yeah.. it’s actually so sad when you come to learn everything you knew isn’t right or actually “normal” but yet you are the crazy person for calling out the bs
2026-10-28 19:24:37
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Autumn_Rising 🍁 :
They made me the problem for sticking up against dysfunction so I removed the problem completely dip & cut..... Best decision ever
2026-10-29 01:30:32
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brittany ♡ honey home :
I was the problem because I asked to be a closer family and said it hurt my feelings sil was constantly ignoring my attempts to become closer they didn’t invite us to anything for a year
2026-10-28 18:56:19
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T :
No, bc I’m showing them how toxic they are and they don’t like it.
2026-10-28 16:39:11
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duuumbasss :
I’m that person
2026-10-28 16:43:10
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tam.gallagher.86 :
No it means they're the one that spoke up..
2026-10-29 01:35:07
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amieandbrocklee :
I’m ok with being “the problem “
2026-10-29 01:32:23
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Lisa Forbes :
😡😡😡HELL NOOO 🙅♀️
2026-10-28 20:29:28
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nobody nobody :
The one person usually is the one breaking the toxic patterns.
2026-10-28 19:35:05
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ddlee1986 :
I’m the problem. I quit bowing down to my SIL
2026-10-29 01:19:44
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ange_monty :
Sometimes yes, that can actually be true. My family set boundaries and my adult kid refuses to respect them. Relationships have been limited now.
On the other hand, it can also mean that they can be a generational pattern breaker. That was me, until everyone got therapy and owned their shit. Now we are closer than ever. Thats rare.
2026-10-28 19:04:20
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AnitaK :
I tried to set a boundary and the entire family quit talking to me and the one person I set the boundary with got the rest of the family on her side. This is my husbands family and mind you I have been a part of for 26 years. It’s debilitating!
2026-10-28 19:01:25
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Diane :
That’s what Ive been told.
2026-10-28 22:08:15
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TurnCaRed :
I’m the problem and I’m not going to jump through hoops to try and fix something that can’t be fixed so I’m good, I’m out and I’m not even sad about it
2026-10-28 22:10:39
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Connor Excel :
I think im a bastard child it explains the vibe.
2026-10-28 18:12:56
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