"not attractive enough physically to throw myself at you but financially stable enough to provide me with the security I require"
2026-10-29 01:00:29
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WhiteDove :
So 'wife material' is acceptable to men but when we call them husband material it's a problem?
2026-10-28 23:31:21
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Jeff McDonald :
How could anyone think of that as a compliment?
2026-10-28 17:10:44
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Samson :
“Not really my type but I’ll settle”
2026-10-28 20:25:37
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YodaLayHeWho? :
Despite what she intended, to most men that reads as "you are not exciting enough, or attractive enough to hook up or be fwb" the second part comes across as "I settled for you." which is NOT a compliment. Talking about hookups and fwb makes him begin to wonder how many guys WERE good enough to just "hook up" with or be "fwb" with...and how many of your current guy friends used to be FWB. She did him zero favors.
2026-10-28 19:30:05
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lyla ᖭི༏ᖫྀ :
Yall are just over reading “ur not someone id want to spend one night with but rather all nights” why are yall taking it like “ur so ugly and boring but ur safer than the hot guy” like tf😭 I’d have to agree with the comment talking about how he’s scared of marriage, or something to that affect.
2026-10-28 19:54:31
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Deezus :
When you break it down, it’s a really backhanded comment. Let’s take the inverse, “I’d fool around with you but never marry you.” This implies they lack desirable traits for a relationship and they aren’t good enough to make one feel safe enough to settle down. So taking the statement in its original form implies a lack of desirable traits to fool around with and its other forms of traits that one would settle down for.
An analogous statement in reverse would be like “I’ve dated pretty women before but they cheated on me so I’d never marry them, but I’d marry you”. I never said you weren’t attractive or pretty, but the implication is you’re not.
2026-10-28 19:11:16
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Sarah 🐱 :
someone saying they want to spend their life with you instead of you being a hookup is a compliment. probably one of the highest compliments to pay someone.
2026-10-28 19:04:35
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Onewhowished :
The only people taking issue with this are insecure or those who believe that marriage is “settling”
2026-10-29 00:49:57
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Journey :
I get interpreting this as an insult and all, but its concerning how many men in this comment section are automatically jumping to marriage = settling for less.. A man you want to marry is so much more valuable than a fling 🤨 if she didnt find you attractive she wouldnt be committing to a life long partnership that ALSO involves s**x. Come on guys.
2026-10-28 21:44:03
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Brian :
in what world could saying this to anybody be good 😭
2026-10-28 20:00:17
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Caboose47 :
Nothing says "I love you" like "I settled for you."
2026-10-28 21:04:34
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Just a Duck :
The thing men most fear is to be used; to spend their wealth and effort supporting someone that does not care about them. In that moment, she admitted she was using him for the support.
2026-10-28 21:09:06
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B.M.O.S :
You're not my type, but I can bring you home to my parents. Who wouldnt feel great about that?
2026-10-28 19:00:50
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megamechtv :
“I wouldn’t give you my body but you can have my heart” ahh compliment
2026-10-28 20:16:03
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Rudyytt :
"youre not fun but when im doing having fun I know you'll be good to settle down with"
2026-10-28 19:58:11
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TicToKing999👑👑👑 :
he was not ready 🤔🤔🤔
2026-10-29 00:38:49
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MinnesotaDadBod :
Don't be a party girl's backup plan
2026-10-28 19:31:33
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Otis-bonds :
Basically called him a charity case.
2026-10-28 20:53:35
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What She Does Next :
Honestly, i also wonder why it was offending but reading comments- i feel men think very differently and sex function represents their desireness in a way!
2026-10-28 20:56:41
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Joe Patton :
She basically called him a Simp
2026-10-28 18:10:38
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a real celebrity account :
"I'll let you take care of me once all this excitement is out of my system"
2026-10-28 21:52:00
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stephen17859 :
Well hookups and one night stands are almost purely based on raw sexual attraction. In which case you just said you don’t find your partner sexually attractive.
2026-10-28 22:38:13
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Caleb Bowling2 :
basically called him small, tell him I said its ok there's a bunch of us in the boat.
2026-10-28 20:36:39
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Rye🍞🐾🦴 :
if my boyfriend said that to me i’d take it as “i don’t think you’re very attractive but you’d make a good wife so that’s why im with you,” idk how yall are trying to make this sound like a compliment
2026-10-28 20:53:57
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