@rewirewithrach: Pulling away or testing you? They look the same on the outside, but they’re doing completely different jobs. Save this for later or share if you found this helpful. Want a part two? let me know in the comments #attachmentstyle #relationships #dating #rewirewithrach #fypシ

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kevinbrown418
Kev B :
They stick around long enough to make sure the damage they cause you is maximized. The entire goal is to hurt you so bad you chase like all the others. Treat them accordingly.
2026-10-28 23:55:48
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iop33a33
🕊️🩵 :
It’s absolutely true. Toward the end of our relationship, when I finally gave him the space he kept creating between us, he told me that I didn’t care about him and questioned why I didn’t chase him when he disappeared. Yet, throughout our year-and-a-half relationship, whenever he withdrew, I would reach out and look for him, only for him to push me away, become extremely cold, and act as if he didn’t care. When I started acting avoidant myself and stopped chasing him, it triggered his anger. He started looking for flaws in me and searching for problems to push me away all over again. They’re crazy. Please, don’t waste your time. You will never win with people like this, no matter what you do. They will drain you emotionally and leave your heart broken.
2026-10-28 22:01:05
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user5777686515858
user5777686515858 :
Thank you, can you talk more on this please, all ive got so far is he constantly watching me like crazy, we havent spoke , but the job he is in he has done me two big favours through someone else
2026-10-29 03:28:08
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jordan.lucas12
Jordan Lucas :
Exactly
2026-10-28 21:00:51
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thomaswezel
Thomas Wezel :
So how do we deal with this?
2026-10-28 23:17:08
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makingmefeellike
Stuck in a Username Factory :
But also we're inadvertently training our partners that our "pulling away" is asking for them to reach out, so when we genuinely pull away, it gives whiplash
2026-10-29 01:54:33
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matthewozbun
Matthew :
🙏🏻
2026-10-28 19:27:09
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