@unpopularpia: The Three Roles You Never Applied For 🛑💔 Going to work, walking through the door, eating dinner, and clocking out for the evening isn't being a partner, it's being a houseguest. When both of you work, but only one of you manages the school schedules, monitors the fridge, does the second shift of childcare, and carries the invisible checklist of the entire house, the partnership is broken. You didn't get married to become an adult man's supervisor. You didn't sign up to remind him to pick up his own clutter, manage his routines, and plan every single meal like he's another child under your roof. No wonder the romance dies. No wonder the spark is gone. You cannot feel desire for someone you have to manage, clean up after, and mother every single day. A home needs two full grown partners, not one person carrying the load while the other just resides there. 🤍 Did you end up carrying all three roles in your home, too? Let's talk below. 👇 #marriageresentment #invisiblelabor #mentalload #marriageadvice #marriedlife
Pia | Mental Load & Marriage
Region: ZA
Wednesday 28 October 2026 19:16:16 GMT
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aaronmcconn :
I work some sun up to sun down..what am I supposed to do when I get home?
2026-10-29 06:43:36
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twstdp4 :
they be doin a 5 hour shift at a desk telling you theres no reason you should be this tired, after a 12 hour roofing job lol
2026-10-29 09:57:36
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Babybelle80 :
Yep I’m with you. This is main reason I left my husband and the fact that he would rather stay up until early hours in the morning playing Xbox instead of coming to bed 😏
2026-10-29 09:32:51
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tiff.leigh.jo :
My ex told me once his job was more demanding. And he made more. So I found a new job that was more demanding and made more than him and broke up with him. Still have that job all so no man can tell he works harder. I work 12 hours days at a physical job as well. Making 6 figures as well.
2026-10-29 18:27:55
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smalltowngirl :
I had to leave my full time job because trying to keep the house in order and making sure I still proper care of my family with coming home making suppers, doing laundry etc and also dealing with my own health I got so burnt out.
2026-10-31 18:12:27
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S :
yup its why the marriage is dry and every fight leads back to him.having access to my body
2026-10-28 19:24:53
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Phil :
what if its the other way round?
2026-10-29 08:13:01
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here laugh :
Yes , and if your husband didn't go to work and earn money , you wouldn't have nothing. in relationship Every partner has got their job to do
2026-10-29 05:38:48
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Ventrex returns :
Or his job is to much and he should find a different one that doesn’t make him this tired
2026-10-29 08:22:00
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PeachPrime :
Well that isn’t true.
2026-10-29 02:57:57
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Libertarian Strong :
What do you want? please be specific
2026-10-29 02:01:00
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Livngdedgurl :
This is what I had pretty much for 25 years. Divorce was final in July.
2026-10-29 21:54:57
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getoutta here :
Left my husband because he would do this to me. Well he is back at home living his mom now.
2026-10-29 19:06:40
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Jessejames80 :
sometimes the shoe is on the other foot... careful with your words.
2026-10-29 17:22:40
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K :
That’s why he’s my ex now. Much happier now I’m divorced 🥰
2026-10-28 23:01:12
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Soul sister :
what do we do? I've never felt so alone.
2026-10-30 18:52:35
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charleena :
Was me but I left 12 months ago!
2026-10-29 14:01:30
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Rooster S :
one of these again. lol
2026-10-29 15:54:55
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ando19805 :
🤣 stay single queens 💪
2026-10-29 09:15:09
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🇨🇦Harper1975❌ :
I told him for years I felt like the maid and nanny, not the wife….it fell on deaf ears.
2026-11-01 23:43:00
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Elizabeth :
What if he doesn’t even go to work?
2026-10-29 04:26:59
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Brandi :
Are we all plotting the same thing asking for a friend
2026-10-29 15:09:05
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user5344756238265 :
Communication is the key.... he may not even realize you're drowning. If he ignores or decides he won't participate in childcare/chores then you need to have a louder discussion!
2026-10-29 13:56:07
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Nate :
And if we didn’t work those long hours we would be ridiculed for not doing enough. So why does it matter
2026-10-29 06:59:13
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Jennifer Danielle :
1000% - 16 years of my life.
2026-10-30 11:31:07
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