@betheecalm: The psychology of why the kindest people come back dangerous 🖤 Cutting people off is how kind people survive. Shadow work is how they become whole. Carl Jung believed we heal by facing the parts of ourselves we were taught to hide, not by burying them. If you stopped being “the nice one” and started being the whole one, this is for you. You didn’t lose your kindness. You gave it a spine. Send this to someone who came back stronger. 🔗 Join the BTCC, the Be Thee Calm Community. It’s free, and it’s the deeper conversation. Link in bio. #shadowwork #carljung #empath #individuation #psychology
Oh there is anger. Now I channel it, and yes, yes I do cut people off much faster
2026-10-28 21:12:18
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kingtom1990 :
Enough is enough. I'm done...
2026-10-28 21:40:07
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Killer🔪🥧 :
Damned if I do damned if I don’t so might as well choose me
2026-10-28 20:34:43
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Pebbles14_14 :
Grew up around performative people. Always remembering a birthday, but not for sincere reasons. So when specific days come around I know they are struggling more than the sincere ones. And those days are much lighter.
2026-10-28 22:12:20
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Omaël :
It's true
2026-10-28 19:27:49
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Jdog :
Thanks Maury
2026-10-28 23:20:52
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Agent 47 :
villains arc
2026-10-28 21:56:37
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funechi :
Was a people pleaser growin up den life hit me.....i learned to adapt
2026-10-28 21:49:20
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Lesly S :
I learned by the age of 15 I was good not nice . I’ll say no. If you’re not good for me I don’t mind keeping you 100 feet away . It’s only irritating when you know I’m keeping you 100 feet away and somehow these vampires still want to come through all these doors . Like nope not sure why yall keep trying but I guess having to keep closing them it’s the irritating part 😂😂😂😂
2026-10-28 20:31:59
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mariamalban916 :
THANK YOU 🥰🥰🥰
2026-10-28 22:45:57
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Leanne :
preach preacher 😏
2026-10-28 21:06:32
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Dr.By :
Agreed. I am watching the aftermath, and getting whole. 😏
WOW that's amazing because your talking about me my friend every word is me.. People who hurt me or discourage me made me stronger wiser and very powerful within..I pay with SILENCE and DISTANCE..
2026-10-28 22:38:15
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Odyssey of Enlightenment :
⚖️🖤💙💚💜❤️🧡💛🤍🪶
2026-10-28 22:03:09
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KINGRAVENLION :
Instead of Blinking people I stay away 🥰🥰
2026-10-28 22:09:34
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Jordyn❣️ :
I am finally whole ❤️
2026-10-28 22:10:39
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Brigitte :
Gifts too ⚡️
2026-10-28 22:33:34
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mattnelson188 :
needed this
2026-10-28 22:26:14
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Xd Lol :
What if my shadow barely exists.
2026-10-28 22:10:26
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CubanMagnolia :
Bravo 👏
2026-10-28 20:55:21
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