@dramadroopp: WIBTA if I did not invite my family to my wedding due to language issues #redditstories #wedding #deafcommunity #aita #storytelling

Martine Lacoursiere :

My petty a$$ would invite them but have a ASL only wedding, so they - hopefully - will understand how hard it is to feel left out.

Kimmii | Middle GA MUA :

Mmm I’d say yes and no only bc it seems like you’re punishing them for not learning sign language. But if you don’t care about to then oh well. Effort has to go both ways tho.

dnikkel :

"I don't expect them to learn a whole new language for me" baby!!! girl!!!!! they're your family, they absolutely 100% should be learning that language for you???? Like sorta f those people if they don't care enough about you to learn how to communicate with you????????

Pauly :

I’m assuming dad isn’t the picture since she didn’t mention him learning ASL, but if he is and didn’t learn it then I hope she doesn’t invite him

Niklas :

She's deaf for 24 years and only 3 in her family learned ASL so they could communicate. Don't invite people that didn't care enough before the wedding about you.

Katy McDonald :

It’s YOUR wedding day not your mom’s. It’s ok to pick and choose family! Do you!

Maria :

Hope she didn't invite them.

Carey Fillingham :

I would invite but make it clear it’s a silent wedding ASL only. If they can’t speak/sign it they can’t come

Trishas madness :

Absolutely Nta, my best friend of 8 years sister has been totally deaf, her family is all fluent and if there is ever a situation where there is lots of ppl they make sure there is a family member right with her, she’s in her late 50s whole family even grandkids, I even know basics hello, how’s she doing, do you want a drink, do you need anything!!! Girl they should have tried I absolutely think you shouldn’t invite them!!!

Heavy Metal Momma 🍉🍉🇬🇧 :

Mum is kinda TA for not using harder for OP to be included during her childhood.

Eva :

Wedding is costly when I was doing my wedding I was inviting only people who cared and loved me so stop being polite because you are going to pay for everything

Silvana Calascibetta :

I would invite my closest family members, my dad and siblings. Then I would play the music so loud that it would be impossible to talk, but still very comfortable for those who do use sign language.

AnnewithaN :

Is this members only ?

T. :

girl, your whole family should have learned ASL for you

Bon :

Da.Smile 🇳🇬🇦🇹 :

your mum ur sis ur cousin is already ur family

b :

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