@healingbythenumbers_: Check the link in my bio to help survivors access resources to plan their escape. All donations are matched dollar for dollar through October 30. #HealingByTheNumbers #BuildYourEscapePlan #SurvivorSupport #FinancialAbuse #DomesticAbuseAwareness
no I literally graduated into a series of further abusive relationships but I legitimately recognized them quicker. Narcissists can smell trauma and it makes us easier to control/manipulate. I finally have a healthy relationship
2026-10-28 22:06:37
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Lunitari :
Listen...... My childhood was packed with ALL the abuses. I spent 11 years abused by my ex. Then my husband came along. He was calm. He was easy going. He was fun. He was obsessed with me........ Maybe a bit too obsessed.... Now we're married, now he's a bit too obsessed with video games.. Now our daughter is here, we have a house now & I'm drowning trying to keep it all together. Now I'm asking for help, but he's playing his game, so he tells me to stop being so lazy & go do my job. Why do I really need a break?? (I had 2 Vestibular conditions & regular vertigo attacks that resulted in ear surgery). Fast forward, our girl is almost 9, & I've been done for 3 years, but...... Lawyer told me I can't afford to get divorced. Can't buy him out of the house. Don't want to take our girl from her home & IEP team. So we essentially live different lives. There's no physical abuse, so........ I let him exist & pretend he's a bored teenage roommate... & don't let his narcissistic, DA tendencies bother me too much.
2026-10-30 10:55:28
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Proud Mom :
Left after 30 yrs. 6 yrs healing
2026-10-29 21:56:59
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Curves & Herbs🔥 :
she is me 😢 I'm so afraid to join and him find out [Perfect score]
2026-10-29 16:17:21
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Justine Whitcomb :
Thank you so so much for what you do! As someone who prays that my circumstances will improve so I never have to leave (again) I’m glad to know I have support and options.
2026-10-29 01:04:44
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jlt_jkt :
I spent my 25th and 35th birthdays in a womens shelter from 2 different men. my son was in both with me
2026-11-01 04:17:27
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