Char Bell | Midlife Momentum
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Wednesday 28 October 2026 22:47:11 GMT
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irenemarieb22 :
Just got divorced, I gave him so many chances because I am empathetic to a fault. I always put him and his needs before me and mine. Justified ignoring the bad times because the good times were so good. Completely lost myself until I had no choice but I had to leave. I’m still trying to find a reason to go back to him and to give him yet another chance but I keep telling myself that he doesn’t have the capability to be the partner I need/desire/deserve
2026-10-30 00:58:16
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justinedanielle :
This what I get for doom scrolling
2026-10-29 13:46:35
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Gwenislosingit :
I’ve been calling it toxic empathy. Understanding the psychology behind the toxic traits. How they came to be the way they are.
2026-10-29 04:55:11
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T💞 :
You think you know me huh 🙃
2026-10-29 05:47:48
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Alanna Nance :
Just because you understand why they are hurting you, doesn’t mean you have to accept that they are hurting you.
2026-10-29 15:27:40
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Esperanza 🌺 :
Like u understand so u give grace but ur aware they are not able to rise to maturity
2026-10-29 08:04:11
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fit.dispatcher.mom :
Well Damn. You outted me on this one .
2026-10-29 03:07:49
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The Mane Muse ✂️✨ :
You taking clients ? I like you
2026-10-30 01:04:25
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Live.Love.Travel🧬❤️✈️ :
Me: He's a jackass 99% of the time because he was abused as a kid. He deserves grace and love! Also me: Unhappy, drained, mentally exhausted
2026-10-30 00:31:07
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sallieheights :
That was me a few years ago and just as you explained, he didn’t have the capacity to be what we needed. We were each other’s safe space. But, he couldn’t handle my need for resolution. He walked out and I never heard from him again.
2026-10-30 01:04:57
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M⟡ :
I get what you’re saying, but I don’t want the girls here to hear ‘smart’ and find another reason to stay. You’ve spent so much time figuring out why they hurt you. Give yourself some of that attention. What are YOU still hoping for? What makes that hope so hard to let go of? You know every reason they became who they are. Cool. But what about who you’re becoming while you wait for them to change?
2026-10-29 21:01:26
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cooluser94 :
yup. and a lack of self respect
2026-10-29 15:31:38
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Mercedes🩷💛🩵 :
So I’m not smart I’m just empathetic and a push over😔😔
2026-10-29 16:21:00
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Vera :
enough is enough. being empathic is a disease
2026-10-29 20:21:53
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Spicy Nice :
Toxic empathy is my biggest downfall! I end up hurting myself.
2026-10-29 11:29:15
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Toxunma_el_ishleri :
i genuinely wish i read The Abandoned Laws of Life by Owen Carter earlier
2026-10-29 16:55:48
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🌼 Karyn 🌼 :
Yup! It’s a blessing and a curse at the same time to be empathetic 🙄
2026-10-29 04:42:13
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Amaya :
I’m tired of being the physiologist in a relationship.
2026-10-29 16:19:35
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Kelly Schuetz :
Struggling with letting go without feeling like I am abandoning someone that needs me. But I need me more and if I don’t let go I will continue to lose myself which is not an option anymore.
2026-10-29 11:37:21
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HealingQuietly :
Him being an alcoholic complicated it more for me.. I wanted to help him get better. 😔
2026-10-29 02:15:02
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TheLadyBrazilianaire®️ :
And that’s why I left. I was so smart, I felt stupid
2026-10-29 11:24:57
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Brianna :
Just because someone loves you doesn’t mean they have the capacity to love you the way you deserve to be loved… Whoa. Thank you
2026-10-29 12:24:40
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emme1728 :
For my type A personality, letting go felt like failure, something I am not accustomed to doing. I tried to fix things that weren’t mine to fix for too long.
2026-10-29 14:38:50
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ilove_lucy336 :
Who can get divorced in this economy? 🙃 No really, this sucks
2026-10-29 23:06:09
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Nikki G :
I just walked away from a man that I love and this is exactly why. I kept thinking that I can take it all on and if I just needed less, I could make this work. He couldn’t say he was sorry, and I over apologized. I was losing myself.
2026-10-29 12:06:37
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