Mendy Kogela
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Thursday 29 October 2026 06:40:39 GMT
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N :
Agreed but don’t expect the other person to share as much either.
2026-10-29 09:09:02
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Katlego :
Yes, but you need to be okay with them placing you where you have placed them too.
2026-10-29 09:20:27
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Amara :
But let’s be honest it does mean the relationship has shifted, because how can we go from sharing things to retaining information… so when they get “weird” they are following your lead
2026-10-29 12:31:06
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Relebohile Sefatsa :
Oh lenaledi excuse hey.
2026-10-29 14:55:37
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phindilezigana4 :
The dynamic has definitely changed
2026-10-29 09:57:25
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zama_makhoba :
Why are the comments treating this as a tit for tat situation 😭😫
2026-10-29 12:47:35
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Keo :
My problem is that one’s who don’t share their lives want us to update them about ours .
2026-10-29 10:51:46
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Katleho :
It’s not about me, yes! But the dynamic has definitely changed and that’s okay. People shouldn’t act differently and expect everyone else to stay the same.
2026-10-29 14:44:27
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Blessing :
as long it goes both ways, I have no issue with that dynamic.
2026-10-29 10:02:39
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theanimemultiuniverse :
Are you kidding me? You expect me to treat you the same when you have relegated me in your life? Are you okay?
2026-10-29 14:17:02
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amüsant :
as long as they dont expect others to be updating them as well
2026-10-29 11:35:37
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QueenM :
Sana the less I know the better 😂 I have alot on my plate. As a person who is a good listener at times you need a break from being a go to person.
2026-10-29 09:30:53
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Tatenda G🌸 :
I used to take it personally because I was an oversharer who would update literally as and when it happened. Now I understand because I also do the same thing
2026-10-29 09:20:24
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SparkByCardo✨ :
Definitely not about me but the dynamic has shifted
2026-10-29 14:56:56
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LoveAlwaysAde :
😭Eii ingakho ngiyinkomo edla yodwa because I don't even belive in sharing things about my life, and some people take it personally. I don't even expect people to share theirs. Mina as long as ukhona uphila and uright, I'm alright! If you need me, I'll be there ngendlela engikwazi ngayo. People believe you owe them details about your life. Eii mina I don't believe that shem. Hence, I don't even ask questions! 😂 I don't even know where my friend works and Anginandaba! Ngijabulela ukuthi she's working and able to take care of herself!
2026-10-29 14:25:10
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blac_.bubbles🎀 :
If you feel like that about me I’ll sure will cut you off… it’s okay for you to not feel comfortable about me and I’ll prevent that in future
2026-10-29 14:40:50
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Gloria Banda :
It is you! You were weird and I created boundaries 😭
2026-10-29 13:04:28
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Sibonile Shozi :
True however if such information is going to affect how you show up as a friend in the friendship it’s important to make people aware you’re aren’t in a good space (without sharing too much info) instead of going ghost / giving silent treatment.
2026-10-29 09:53:51
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MsVee150 :
Oh nkosi. How I wanna send this to my friend who thinks she can control me and my life and makes everything about her. Like how is me giving birth and wanting some space about you now?😳😳
2026-10-29 09:22:12
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Mbalenhle Khumalo :
Very true❤️my problem is people who don't share but ask me about my life update,kanjan when I don't ask about yours... I love people who respect boundaries mna
2026-10-29 12:48:52
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Miss_Triton :
I understand that but am I wrong for respecting that and deleting her numbers? what if I'm a monitoring spirit to her because she even tells people she knows very well are close to me but not me. I'm glad I deleted
2026-10-29 12:45:05
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Njabuu :
People grow up and things change ❤️
2026-10-29 10:46:22
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Tshiamo🍯 :
The problem is when there are people you tell and I am not one of them. And I was planned to tell later… clearly I am not important. And I will be where you you placed me
2026-10-29 13:21:20
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Natasha_Mnx🍒 :
But why do people get angry when you do the same ?[Laugh approved][Laugh approved] ..why do they get angry when you also choose to jot share infor with them when you used to both share in the past
2026-10-29 12:16:43
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