@lostson350: Most of these don’t look like tests. They look casual. Playful. Sometimes even unintentional. But if you’re not paying attention… you’ll miss what he’s actually trying to figure out. --- 1️⃣ HE DELAYS REPLYING ON PURPOSE He takes longer than usual to respond. Not because he’s busy… but to see what you’ll do. Do you double text? Overthink? Start chasing the conversation? He’s watching your reaction. --- 2️⃣ HE GIVES YOU MINIMAL EFFORT AT TIMES Some days he’s engaging… other days he pulls back. Short replies. Less enthusiasm. He wants to see if you’ll overcompensate and carry the conversation. --- 3️⃣ HE CANCELS OR RESCHEDULES LAST MINUTE He switches plans suddenly. Watches how easily you adjust. Do you hold your ground… or immediately make yourself available again? --- 4️⃣ HE BRINGS UP OTHER WOMEN CASUALLY Not directly disrespectful… just subtle mentions. “Yeah, my friend said…” or “someone was telling me…” He’s seeing if you react with insecurity or stay grounded. --- 5️⃣ HE DOESN’T INITIATE FOR A WHILE He goes quiet. No texts. No calls. He’s waiting to see if you’ll reach out first… and how quickly. --- 6️⃣ HE KEEPS THINGS UNDEFINED No labels. No clarity. Just “going with the flow.” He’s observing how long you’ll stay without knowing where you stand. --- 7️⃣ HE GIVES YOU JUST ENOUGH ATTENTION Not too much… not too little. Enough to keep you interested. But not enough to feel secure. He’s watching if you’ll start chasing consistency. --- 8️⃣ HE WATCHES HOW AVAILABLE YOU ARE He suggests something last minute. Or texts at odd hours. He’s seeing if you drop everything… or if you have your own life. --- 9️⃣ HE PUSHES SMALL BOUNDARIES Nothing major… just little things. A slightly inappropriate joke. A small disrespect. He’s watching if you let it slide… or address it. --- 🔟 HE OBSERVES HOW YOU RESPOND TO SILENCE Silence is a tool. He creates space… and watches. Do you get anxious? Start overthinking? Try to fill the gap? Or do you stay calm and continue living your life? --- A man doesn’t always ask if you’re desperate. He watches. In your reactions. Your patience.
He’s not testing, he’s trying to make her desperate for what little he has to offer. He’s not testing, he’s conditioning her to settle for little and nothing. Block him.
2026-10-29 23:51:30
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Hawkinsju :
As he is testing the woman, the woman will pick her peace and fail the testing, moving forward without him.
2026-10-29 15:56:32
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Cathy K. Brinson :
All of that and whole time he's the one failing the test 💅🏾
2026-10-29 21:22:53
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Lisa :
AIN'T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT. WE KEEP IT MOVING 💯
2026-10-29 16:48:53
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It’s Shay Shay Baby :
I’m to detached for these childish games I go ghost on men asap
2026-10-29 19:55:34
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Tia butterfly :
I rather chase a cheeseburger with a strawberry milkshake than a man
2026-10-29 19:49:03
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🪴 :
Is this considered manipulation
2026-10-29 16:31:28
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Paulinegreen🏴 :
Nah instant block with these mind games 👌
2026-10-30 15:26:04
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Penny Rosalyn BSN; RN :
I been there !! cut them off.. Its a manipulation tactic... and it changes YOU... YOU begin to do everything to please him and to keep him coming back. NO man is that important
2026-10-30 11:16:38
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Alison Msoh🇺🇸🇰🇪 :
Great he’ll test me and watch me get married 😳, he can continue his test elsewhere there’s no graduating with narcissist 💯🎯
2026-10-30 15:24:22
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Kay :
If he walks away after you fail his "test" it's cause he has bad intentions, sees you as replaceable and probably already has someone to replace you with. So he really exposes himeself.
2026-10-29 19:32:05
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jacki :
and that's when we walk away...m
2026-10-29 15:16:58
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🇺🇸TiatheReal🇺🇸 :
Just be alone if you got to do all of that
2026-10-29 23:01:59
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jenniferaraby :
That's not testing that's a dismissive avoidant to the T or very toxic nothing good will come out of this.
2026-10-30 14:50:34
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Khristy Axford :
this is so fucking toxic
2026-10-30 14:55:53
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touchedawriter :
AND PEACE AND LET THE FORCE BE WITH US WOMEN, THAT IS ALSO THE WISDOM OF GOD, BLESSINGS 🙏🙌✨️💫⬆️✅️🌈🫶🕊🥰
2026-10-30 13:07:40
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KalynJames22 :
All of that is just called gaslighting or uninterested [Innocent]
2026-10-30 02:06:45
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Peggy Carleton :
A guy I was interested bailed on me. Three different times. I refused to give him another chance. He tried on and off for two years. I said “no. I gave you three strikes and now you’re out.” He finally stopped calling.
2026-10-29 22:28:27
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Lowonder Preston :
A quick way to lose me😜
2026-10-29 20:53:50
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arielwith87 :
He’s teaching her how to live without him. That she can’t rely on him so don’t get use to him being around. Why do he have to play games anyway that’s childish. Grown boy moves not a grown man. Just my thoughts.
2026-10-30 02:04:52
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🍀_Lana_1017🍀 :
As soon as I feel that I’m being manipulated or tested, I end the conversation. After all, there are plenty of other men in the world who are interested in me 😏
2026-10-29 16:35:49
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Remy💋 :
This is unfortunate because alot of men will do this and u better be ready to flip that uno reverse on them and stick to it because once they see u will allow things to slide they will do it more and more. This is how cycles of abuse start. Emotional abuse starts like this
2026-10-29 18:29:01
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Diamond :
I had to stop reading. Honestly if you gonna do all of that … blocked. This my world
2026-10-30 01:25:42
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Celeste :
Yep, last guy I had a crush on acted this way. The second time he bailed on me last minute. I told him to take care.
2026-10-29 23:27:45
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DeeDee :
Playing these games will get you replaced...expeditiously.
2026-10-29 22:23:02
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