It’s true and it’s so damn boring. I’m autistic and want to talk about cool stuff, not people.
2026-10-29 18:04:53
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VeeVee :
It's so interesting because we as POC bond over so many other things, fun things.
2026-10-31 01:06:53
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Stephanie Moreno :
This is so common!! I just bow out. My circle is sooo small. Like why am I at a baby shower with my family & my aunt is talking about her daughter who was also pregnant and not in attendance, and body shaming her to us, and pointing out how much weight she’s gained. Like, just count me out. I don’t want to even hear that. It’s so cruel. And it’s about people who likely deeply trust you. It makes me so uncomfortable.
2026-10-30 21:29:25
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FindingmyJoi♥️ :
Yes! they make it a game. And it gives me the strongest ICK!!
2026-10-30 00:40:49
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Lo :
This was my experience as a ww. I think we are taught to view other women as competition so that we don’t unite as women against the power dynamic. When I got into a 12 step program in my early 20s, I had to unpack that behavior. Since then, I’ve only had friends that do not talk crap and lead with compassion and self reflection if there’s an issue. It was a painful lesson.
2026-10-29 15:02:46
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Niff :
In my experience this is true. THOUGH as much as they talk behind backs—if you communicate these issues head on directly to the person there’s an issue with…that’s a no go. It’s a strange strange game.
2026-10-30 14:58:42
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kjus :
This is my mom through and through. She is a very boring person unless she is getting gossip. Then she is a giddy teenager.
2026-10-29 15:48:22
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aeron 🐬 :
I had a friend just like this
2026-10-30 16:54:16
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schiz0barbie🍉 :
Yes! So much agree. I’m a very direct person and in white womanhood that’s a curse. I’m seen as aggressive when I’m literally just saying something bothered me lol.
2026-10-29 15:34:12
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Dame Good :
It’s all gossiping and shifting alliances with the friend group. And just waiting until YOU’RE the target of the week.
2026-10-30 14:25:46
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Coach Britt. 🏀 :
I’m like & yall are FRIENDS??? 👀
2026-10-30 15:39:07
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emmett :
This is my mom to a T. People used to tell me “why are you so worried people are talking badly about you, nobody talks like that!” um because my mom behind closed doors was straight up evil while talking about some of her “closest friends” so I thought that’s what everyone did
2026-10-30 14:45:11
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no thx :
And it’s so irritating. I won’t do it, so I’m the other yt women talk crap about. At work especially.
2026-10-30 11:07:54
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miss misandry :
I really tried to have a relationship with my sisters but they were so mean behind my back. It's heartbreaking they've said horrifying things about me experiencing DV. I just don't understand they're supposed to love me.
2026-10-29 17:48:41
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Robin (she/her) :
I always love your discussions because they are so relatable. Autistic/adhd here
2026-10-29 22:51:02
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madenofwallflowers :
It’s so true. & when you don’t participate, then you are rude. It is a big deal but you can’t call it out in a group. I didn’t connect with my mom either & it’s the only way we had convos.
2026-10-30 17:13:12
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Jess :
This is true!! I lost a group of friends bc their idea of fun was exactly what you said “let’s get wine and talk shit” but that’s not my idea of fun!! It was mean girl energy so I had to go
2026-10-29 15:40:24
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upsetti0_spaghetti0 :
My MIL tried to do this with me as a bonding activity at first, 14 years later she has learned its boring to me and I'm not gonna engage. 😬
2026-10-29 18:40:05
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PrudencePea :
This is one hundred percent true. And why I have no friends and got a job where I don't see any coworkers
2026-10-29 20:24:13
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Jenn :
Here to say: FACTS! Took me a long time to unlearn this bs!
2026-10-29 23:01:39
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Kelseys Diary :
It's legit terrifying.
2026-10-30 00:50:24
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Chelsey Cook :
Oh most definitely. As a white woman myself, I grew up around this and had to stop myself from doing it 😒
2026-10-30 13:05:08
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wolf :
we bond over da burger
2026-10-29 15:09:04
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Steph L 💙🧿 :
That’s why I only have one white friend of 30 years!!
2026-10-29 18:54:43
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𝕊𝕟𝕠𝕠𝕫𝕖𝕊𝕔𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕤 :
true. I realized I was in some of those relationships this year. and I was like this doesn't align with me
2026-10-29 18:41:44
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