@coach.ryan0: They want the honeymoon phase on repeat: all the attention, chemistry, and comfort… with none of the needs, expectations, or accountability that come with an actual relationship. That’s not “keeping things light.” That’s wanting a partner who asks for nothing while you give whatever you feel like. #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalAvailability
Basically friends with benefits. What’s wrong with that? 😂
2026-10-29 23:29:40
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Kinga :
all is surfacelevel with them!!!
2026-11-01 21:36:55
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Mare :
How do you finally let go of an avoidant?
2026-10-29 19:29:59
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BillieX :
his female best friend gives him this so now I'm history.
2026-10-29 22:12:47
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thickngrits :
He is happy always pointing out my mistakes and issues
2026-10-29 22:27:37
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Michelle :
He would constantly say “so you need me to meet your needs before mine?” And I would always meet it with “not my needs, ours, needs that a healthy relationship HAS to have to be healthy” and I would always be met with the look of a deer in headlights. It’s wild to experience someone like this in real life. They will literally have you standing outside the hospital about to check yourself into the psychiatric unit.
2026-10-31 11:29:05
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Michelle Buchanan :
I told him ‘I’m not allowed to have feeling or express them’ that’s sick and it’s controlling. Glad he’s gone
2026-10-30 11:59:54
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kimberly.wanders.denver🌻 :
This video made me nauseous
2026-10-29 20:25:23
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_user_356799),:.:($$$@ :
My dismissive avoidant dumped me and opened up a business for another female until I started doubting if he was indeed an avoidant or someone who just never liked me .but I could have sworn he was very avoidant
2026-10-29 20:23:35
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_dlynn.18 :
They want a friend! You got it!! ✌️
2026-10-29 23:11:58
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Sara :
Word for word. Spot on
2026-10-30 10:56:25
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CV :
So were screwed then. They don't want us?
2026-10-29 20:36:42
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Grocery & Glam :
100% accurate.
2026-10-29 23:09:28
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Karla Thomas760 :
Stress and anxiety free— like a tv show. Their idea of a relationship comes from Seinfeld episodes. Very unrealistic expectations.
2026-10-30 15:55:48
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phoenix.starx :
Never miss
2026-10-29 21:07:40
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cnytkyln :
It’s true; my friend deals with all sorts of filth all day long. We work to earn a living so we can manage our household; I’m not complaining, but in return, we do expect a little respect, tolerance, and empathy.👍
2026-10-29 18:59:56
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ReallyRah💅🏽✨ :
Very rigid, but cannot live up to those same standards.
2026-10-30 20:46:04
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dug_in :
Yep!
2026-10-29 20:37:33
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Iiiiamiconicbymistake :
So you just explained a majority of the population.
2026-10-29 23:22:33
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Kevin Tatum :
This guy says the same BS in every video. Very little of it is accurate. I’m a DA and ain’t never felt defective. Hell, I’m happy with it.
2026-10-30 01:15:10
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candi 🌈 🇺🇸🏳️🌈 :
If they told you all this. You would have ran alone time ago. But they don’t. It make take years for you to find out. 😥. They will lie and hide the truth.
2026-10-30 12:15:07
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One Spicy Coconut :
The only person who gets unconditional love, affection and attention without any reciprocation are Babies!!! You don't go to work for free. You don't expect to go to the store and get free food. But when it comes to a relationship, no reciprocation? If you can't handle a relationship, stop dating bc its not fair to the other person who is showing up and being genuine and authentic.
2026-10-30 22:36:16
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Mountain Herbs Herbal Blends :
Truly I don't have time for this slow killers. solution is stay away to them because we are not the cause of whatsoever is happening in them.
2026-10-29 21:22:54
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Ramo :
So basically emotionally and mentally lazy
2026-10-31 00:44:45
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