@truthcove0: An empath becoming avoidant isn't coldness, it's exhaustion. Four stages: disappointment, realization, burnout, boundaries. The distance was never fear of love, it was fear of losing themselves. Which stage are you in? #Empath #AvoidantAttachment #Psychology #Boundaries #Healing

JoJo :

This is me. I’m done with people.

Sharon89 :

Betrayal made me stop giving.

Macca :

This is exactly what has happened to me . I’ve just come to a point where I can’t carry on trying to save relationships when others don’t offer the same energy. I’ve just become distant I just can’t do it anymore .

—͞ꜱᴀʙʙɪʀ〆vai :

i genuinely wish i read The Abandoned Laws of Life by O. Carter earlier

mamma-g70 :

I love being distant its so peaceful 🥰

Mina-essence 🎤🧚🏻 :

I become an avoidant after being a empath for so long 💃🔥

Jen :

Yup, gave up last year and just walked away. No explanation. I’m finally understanding that no one is coming to save me, so now I’m saving myself.💔❤️‍🩹😌

Lisa :

I started to see people for who they truly are and I chose myself. My circle is very small and I prefer it that way.

norwegiannomad_ :

This is me, I quit calling people and reaching out for about two weeks and no one called me. That did it for me and trying to chase relationships, my circle is small now and I choose me and peace 🧡

raine :

I am a giver but get taken

Kam :

💯 the truth. Once you realize, you begin to understand your own self worth. 🙏

🍀 Alicia 🍀 :

Friendship is a two way street. One day I was the one who needed support, care, love after years of pouring into others. Alot of the people in my world not only didn't show up for me, they disappeared completely. I finally got it. They weren't friends, they were acquaintances. Making this shift mentally brought self respect and peace to my life. It's an ongoing process. I value myself enough to stop seeing potential and accepting people for who they are. ❤️

Flippinlovely 🌐 :

Oooooh that’s me

Kattenachi🪐 :

and then they get angry and make you feel like you never did anything for them

lovingme2life🎗🧡 :

THISSSSSSSSSS!!! MY COMPLETE TRANSITION EXACTLY 💯

Umu Aziza :

i was giver

Smiley :

So sad that the people around us didn’t understand until we stopped

Inner D :

never chase....NEVER!

Chani :

burnout. disrespect and one sided relationships made me pull back🙏❤️

Maria :

THERE COMES A TIME WHEN ENOUGH IS ENOUGH AND I TAKE MY POWER BACK AND TOTALLY PUT THEM PEOPLE IN THE PAST AND CONCENTRATE ON MY GROWTH AND HAPPINESS 💯🙏🙏

kat.kat.kat73 :

Thank you for this ❤️. I am that person but find myself again.

jenniferaraby :

Complete exhaustion and wanted clarity again. Tired of wondering.

kgimeno :

Cholo :

Spot on!

Lucky831 :

Exhaustion