@trustandthrive: Optimization OCD is when OCD creates a sense of urgency or pressure to optimize different parts of your life - from the more “simple” day-to-day decisions to bigger life questions related to relationships, career, lifestyle, healing, etc. As a reminder, Optimization OCD is simply a nickname/unofficial term used, not its own diagnosis or a formal clinical term. Resonating with this post does not necessarily mean you live with OCD. With OCD, the focus is more on the function of the behavior in response to the thoughts, feelings, anxiety, or discomfort. Many people who experience OCD related to optimizing parts of their lives may constantly feel like they are “behind” or that they are trying to keep up with internal, often rigid, rules. It can feel like an exhausting loop that never ends. If you can relate, you are not alone. I recently shared a solo episode on this topic on the Trust and Thrive podcast - out now on iTunes and Spotify. #ocdawareness #optimizationocd
Tara | Therapist
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Thursday 29 October 2026 21:19:05 GMT
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Genesis :
Hi, I’m here for my lobotomy.
2026-10-30 00:09:25
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ghostface :
So do I need to be sedated or?
2026-10-29 23:49:06
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emmalena222 :
Wait line up I’m shooting us all
2026-10-30 18:49:43
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user5215993446324 :
Then I crash out because the day feels like it’s over once 2:58pm hits
2026-10-30 04:12:08
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sierra merrill :
does anyone have this dialogue all day but u find urself frozen so you do the opposite of your thoughts and just stay inside in homeless clothes and just stay in a state of panic or
2026-10-30 00:46:46
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𝓜𝓲𝓴𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓪 𝓡𝓪𝓮 :
and then it's 2 pm and too late to do anything that matters so I just give up
2026-10-29 23:47:29
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kassickscorner :
on today’s episode of “am i actually autistic or do i just have optimization OCD.”
2026-10-30 01:00:58
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Lindsay :
I even do this with something as small as cleaning up my kitchen. I try to plan exactly what I’m putting away to try to put things away in a way that saves the most time. Like if I’m putting spices away, I’ll also grab the milk since I’m going to pass the fridge on my way to the cabinet. If I miss an opportunity I feel really uncomfortable. It’s actually really hard to explain verbally now that I’m trying lol.
2026-11-03 22:08:40
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Ashley Kidd :
wanting to do everything in one day then getting absolutely nothing done because all you did was try to figure out the best way to do it all 🫠
2026-11-03 23:44:43
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Freckles :
Crash out and hate myself for being lazy all day
2026-10-30 02:21:15
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taydub :
okay and how do you fix it
2026-11-04 00:25:34
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lydia :
I seriously can’t even listen to this. It’s exactly how my brain sounds every single day
2026-10-30 18:30:52
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cs :
Ughhh howww do we stop thissss
2026-10-29 21:28:19
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brandi 🍒 :
what am i craving the MOST so that i dont waste a meal on something i won't enjoy and will think about the thing i actually want the entire time im eating
2026-10-30 00:43:45
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Julie Meyle :
So this isn’t normal
2026-11-02 04:51:56
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Madi Shae :
If you wanna be productive and feel good about yourself and not waste time what’s wrong with that 😭
2026-11-03 22:45:44
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sam 🩻 :
and then i become paralyzed trying to optimize everything and end up frozen in place
2026-11-03 02:47:58
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vibutnotfromarcane :
then i just sit there like this
2026-10-30 14:01:13
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rclilyrose :
This ain’t normal???
2026-10-29 23:55:38
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<3 :
My GOD how do I stop this
2026-10-29 21:27:09
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Ryan :
My exposure therapy with this is just being sick😭
2026-10-30 00:17:36
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Tony wolf :
So are you going to tell us how to stop this or do I need to be put down ?
2026-10-30 04:00:11
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carmalit. :
This in my head and then paralysis because I am scared of doing something imperfectly and wasting my time and energy to only then actually waste my time and energy not doing said thing.
2026-10-30 01:18:55
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Will Kline :
How do I turn this into a successful career as a systems analyst
2026-10-29 23:44:57
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doreen chloe :
I hate it. It’s so debilitating.
2026-10-29 23:46:20
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