@trustandthrive: Optimization OCD is when OCD creates a sense of urgency or pressure to optimize different parts of your life - from the more “simple” day-to-day decisions to bigger life questions related to relationships, career, lifestyle, healing, etc. As a reminder, Optimization OCD is simply a nickname/unofficial term used, not its own diagnosis or a formal clinical term. Resonating with this post does not necessarily mean you live with OCD. With OCD, the focus is more on the function of the behavior in response to the thoughts, feelings, anxiety, or discomfort. Many people who experience OCD related to optimizing parts of their lives may constantly feel like they are “behind” or that they are trying to keep up with internal, often rigid, rules. It can feel like an exhausting loop that never ends. If you can relate, you are not alone. I recently shared a solo episode on this topic on the Trust and Thrive podcast - out now on iTunes and Spotify. #ocdawareness #optimizationocd

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deedeemegadoodoo836
Genesis :
Hi, I’m here for my lobotomy.
2026-10-30 00:09:25
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ghostfaceq24
ghostface :
So do I need to be sedated or?
2026-10-29 23:49:06
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emmalena222
emmalena222 :
Wait line up I’m shooting us all
2026-10-30 18:49:43
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doineedtopickausername0
user5215993446324 :
Then I crash out because the day feels like it’s over once 2:58pm hits
2026-10-30 04:12:08
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thesierraarchives
sierra merrill :
does anyone have this dialogue all day but u find urself frozen so you do the opposite of your thoughts and just stay inside in homeless clothes and just stay in a state of panic or
2026-10-30 00:46:46
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beadandblossom
𝓜𝓲𝓴𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓪 𝓡𝓪𝓮 :
and then it's 2 pm and too late to do anything that matters so I just give up
2026-10-29 23:47:29
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kassickscorner
kassickscorner :
on today’s episode of “am i actually autistic or do i just have optimization OCD.”
2026-10-30 01:00:58
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lindzor7
Lindsay :
I even do this with something as small as cleaning up my kitchen. I try to plan exactly what I’m putting away to try to put things away in a way that saves the most time. Like if I’m putting spices away, I’ll also grab the milk since I’m going to pass the fridge on my way to the cabinet. If I miss an opportunity I feel really uncomfortable. It’s actually really hard to explain verbally now that I’m trying lol.
2026-11-03 22:08:40
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ashley_kidd
Ashley Kidd :
wanting to do everything in one day then getting absolutely nothing done because all you did was try to figure out the best way to do it all 🫠
2026-11-03 23:44:43
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catiewithak
Freckles :
Crash out and hate myself for being lazy all day
2026-10-30 02:21:15
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taylor.k05
taydub :
okay and how do you fix it
2026-11-04 00:25:34
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lydbrown
lydia :
I seriously can’t even listen to this. It’s exactly how my brain sounds every single day
2026-10-30 18:30:52
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cocoshella
cs :
Ughhh howww do we stop thissss
2026-10-29 21:28:19
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brandi.vallera
brandi 🍒 :
what am i craving the MOST so that i dont waste a meal on something i won't enjoy and will think about the thing i actually want the entire time im eating
2026-10-30 00:43:45
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juliee_6787
Julie Meyle :
So this isn’t normal
2026-11-02 04:51:56
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madi.shae
Madi Shae :
If you wanna be productive and feel good about yourself and not waste time what’s wrong with that 😭
2026-11-03 22:45:44
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samueloughh
sam 🩻 :
and then i become paralyzed trying to optimize everything and end up frozen in place
2026-11-03 02:47:58
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vibutnotfromarcane
vibutnotfromarcane :
then i just sit there like this
2026-10-30 14:01:13
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rclilyrose
rclilyrose :
This ain’t normal???
2026-10-29 23:55:38
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blacktarheroin33
<3 :
My GOD how do I stop this
2026-10-29 21:27:09
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cityelfreader
Ryan :
My exposure therapy with this is just being sick😭
2026-10-30 00:17:36
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tony_wolfpack
Tony wolf :
So are you going to tell us how to stop this or do I need to be put down ?
2026-10-30 04:00:11
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carmalit1
carmalit. :
This in my head and then paralysis because I am scared of doing something imperfectly and wasting my time and energy to only then actually waste my time and energy not doing said thing.
2026-10-30 01:18:55
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willkline69
Will Kline :
How do I turn this into a successful career as a systems analyst
2026-10-29 23:44:57
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wildestgoose
doreen chloe :
I hate it. It’s so debilitating.
2026-10-29 23:46:20
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