But how does this apply when the trauma is from childhood abuse that you couldn’t leave.
2026-10-30 02:23:49
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Amzi :
I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt and assuming this is a case of poor wording rather than what he actually believes. But suggesting that someone developed complex trauma because they didn't value their own self-preservation enough places responsibility on the person who experienced the trauma rather than those who caused it. Many of those behaviors were survival mechanisms in the first place. Bad take or bad wording, either way. 👎
2026-10-30 01:55:03
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user011455688 :
Yesss! I healed my cptsd so you can too. It took insane challenges
2026-11-03 08:03:44
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alep_bet :
I was a child bro
2026-10-30 10:40:57
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Jamie-CurrentlyUnderRefinement :
Ugh. Darn 35 years of complex trauma I’m cooked
2026-10-29 23:31:42
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liv kirk🧚🏼♀️✨ :
Holy shit. THIS COMPLETELY CHANGED MY PERSPECTIVE!! Sage advice put ever so eloquently
2026-10-30 00:51:29
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dani🌸 :
dude what my cptsd is from watching drug and alcohol abuse as a kid and watching both of my parents die from it how is that due to not valuing self preservation
2026-10-30 04:04:35
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Tortured Souls :
I feel like I have to start over and leave everything.
2026-10-29 23:27:41
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plumbifgjcd88 :
This makes me feel a LOT less shame for not being able to return to my whole self. So thank you!
2026-10-30 01:32:29
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Lacey Cole :
I was a child
2026-10-30 12:58:11
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TheLongestAvenue :
why are you yelling at me
2026-10-30 02:41:31
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daniqjbr :
My bandwidth is 0.0 [Big LOL]
2026-10-30 08:08:03
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Helssnipperr :
This! I was traumatised from my very earliest memory. There is no normal, just a lifetime of chaos and shame
2026-10-29 23:41:40
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Eugene 📚 | they/them :
Thank you. I needed to hear this today
2026-10-30 16:45:53
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Lisa Warren Hansen :
I feel the same after compound grief. Thank you for the insight.
2026-10-30 15:17:57
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Dashmom6838🪼 :
The new way…….the old way is dead and gone, dead and gone…..I keep my cup full now…only pour from overflow 🙏❤️🙏 LOVE…..keep your heart keep your love
2026-10-30 03:26:43
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Sam :
words I needed to hear brother
2026-10-30 07:59:45
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Blessed-mess :
Thanks man, that makes sense. I’ve experienced this, but felt like a villain pulling back to save myself. Everyone sees me as an asshole because I just can’t anymore
2026-10-30 02:23:28
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Xao :
yeah, sure, it defenetly was stupid of me to be born into the family of a drug addict. should've known better
2026-10-30 11:29:16
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daisydaze221 :
I think it’s episode 58 not 59
2026-10-30 11:17:35
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Lady Frankeeeeee :
Hii, I can't go back to before I was traumatized because it happened before I had memories. I've never had prolonged safety, ever.
2026-10-30 04:24:05
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sk8rgyal :
I’ve lost people who couldn’t hold me, and I’ve gained people who held me in ways I didn’t even know I needed. ❤️
2026-10-30 04:33:56
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Mom Boss :
Ouch. So true
2026-10-30 05:37:05
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JillAtPoeticGold :
Wounded healer therapists fit here too
2026-10-30 00:13:55
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Mom Boss :
I just want people who give back
2026-10-30 05:37:52
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