@its_danielleryan: Thoughts on unexpected visitors when you’re post partum? We have never had an open door policy so unexpected drop-ins is a hard no from me 😂😂 #boundaries #inlaws #familydrama #fictionalcharacters

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bluesapphirebujo
Blue Sapphire 🇨🇦 :
Funny story: when I was breastfeeding my eldest I once had women cross my lawn to peep in my window to see me breastfeed. They then proceeded to give me dirty looks and complain to the town that I was “exposing myself” when I was sitting on my couch in my living room. You couldn’t see anything unless you physically walked up and pushed your face against the glass. The town laughed in their faces
2026-10-30 19:02:35
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kylaj623
Brneyedgrl23 :
Why even answer??!
2026-10-30 00:51:17
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machomama26
machomama26 :
If my husband opened that damn door....
2026-10-30 02:22:40
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uncommonstorm89
Christin :
You come over to our home unannounced and uninvited, I’m not even opening the door and i will tell you to leave through our camera. It has happened a few times.
2026-10-30 16:26:14
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princessjaaddee
Jade 🎀 :
When does grandma explode 😂😭
2026-10-30 00:07:07
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ruby15187
Andie :
I wouldn’t have answered the door
2026-10-31 15:23:45
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charlotte.book02
Charlotte Côté :
My boyfriend moms came during her shift at the hospital less then 30minutes after I gave birth🥲 I wanted to cry. For my second I said: NOBODY could come. Was perfect
2026-10-30 01:36:07
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aubreecrema
aubs :
Omg I wouldn’t even answer the door 😂
2026-10-30 02:13:46
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eris.williams63
Eris ♡ :
"Now let us in!" "No." Thats when I would close the door.
2026-11-01 22:37:57
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hairwitch91
Kendall Polston :
his family would text or call me to ask about visiting. their reasoning was 1. I communicate faster 2. im the one breastfeeding. I honestly didnt care as long as we were home. if baby was napping we just sat and talked. they also stopped by when we got home from the hospital with food and my MIL helped me unpack the baby bag while FIL and husband got like a week worth of meals into the freezer.(yes this was pre-planned they didnt just drop by), my parents stopped by the next day with more food. didnt have to cook for a couple weeks and everything was in foil pans so no dishes.
2026-10-30 00:16:52
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chickies.and.quac
Chickies and Quackers :
When I was just days out of the hospital after having my second child and second c-section, I had 28 staples and pain in my back from the epidural. I had to pump because my daughter would latch beautifully, but would not wake up to nurse or nurse while sleeping and her glucose started to drop dangerously in the hospital (she would take a bottle while sleeping) so it was the middle of July, hot af and I was sitting on my living room floor in the AC and pumping when my s/o's aunt just walked in through the sliding glass door unannounced while I was completely topless. I went to twist to the side to cover myself and ended up with a shooting pain from the site of the spinal tap up to the base of my skull. Immediately burst into tears from the pain (I'm not a crier, so it was bad bad) and the whole situation set off a bit of post partum rage and I screamed "GET TF OUT!!" and even my boyfriend went with her 😭 I ended up stuck on the floor until I could get near something to pull myself up with because of the c section pain and the staples feeling like they were pinching, plus the back pain. Its been over 14 years now and I still remember that day clearly. People need to normalize not showing up unannounced to visit mom and baby.
2026-10-30 17:34:10
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jojo67452
A :
not quite the same thing, but I was being induced and it was a long process. they sent me home. we were also sent to a specific kids hospital for it. my dad showed up unannounced to the hospital and we were at home. we also stated we didn't want visitors.
2026-11-05 13:41:42
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nik.__.lol
Nikol_Doskarova :
I think like its bad they came unanouced but they also didnt like trow a tantrum and reacted well so thats good🌝
2026-11-01 21:11:16
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jenjen.h.86
JenJen :
Yes I thought now would be the time to plan a last minute dinner party. lol
2026-10-30 03:07:38
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leykybby
leyky :
my brother had a bad habit of only giving 5 minutes warning
2026-11-02 17:56:46
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candicemaine2013
Candice :
we have glass windows in the front of our house and I just stare at them from the couch and not answer the door lol
2026-10-30 18:47:08
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sharhondavroom
CAT 🐈‍⬛ :
I hope this isn’t based on your real MIL. Cause that shit sounds exhausting. I’d lose it lol
2026-10-30 03:03:52
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mommabear506
Jade Reimer :
My hubs is on my side with unexpected visitors postpartum or not if you show up without warning the door gets closed in your face family or not too 🤷‍♀️i dont play games
2026-10-30 03:14:02
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aboriginalgirly13
Lenathebellarina :
girl three hours
2026-11-06 01:52:09
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brickellclark
Brickell Clark :
My neighbor did this and wouldn’t go away after the first no
2026-10-31 22:03:10
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ghostgirly0
Lou and Izzy's Mum :
Unexpected visitors fullstop just dont do it 😂
2026-11-03 04:53:31
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mashedpotatoesneeded
🥔MashedPotatoes🥔 :
I don't do unexpected visitors ever. you can call or text before coming over in case i dont want visitors. I wont answer the door if I dont want visitors
2026-11-05 18:27:10
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klaudinagjergji92
Klaudina :
Omg! Are you serious???
2026-11-04 13:41:37
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grantrice70
Grant :
🥰
2026-11-02 16:30:12
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laurensimmons316
Lauren Simmons :
I’m blessed to have a mother in law that does not care [Tears of joy] first time she’s asked me how I’m doing was at 33 weeks lol and she immediately changed the subject
2026-10-30 15:38:47
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