@therealniccoy: Narcissists don’t choose victims because they’re weak. They often exploit the very qualities that make someone a good human being: empathy, loyalty, and the willingness to see the best in people. Your goodness was never the problem. Learning where it belongs is the power. ❤️🩹 #NarcissisticAbuse #SelfTrust #TraumaRecovery #narcissist #abusedvictim
As a licensed therapist, this is one of the best I’ve heard. Thank you!
2026-11-01 16:31:46
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Kimberly Love💋 :
Thank you so much. It is like the Lord put you here to talk to me and teach me. Totally platonic, but I love you.
2026-11-01 20:23:19
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ConfidentlyBee🐝 Fashion OOTD :
is this why I keep ending up with these abusive man. I keep thinking "predators see the broken girl in me". and thats why I keep picking them. thank you for this. I needed this more than you think.
2026-11-01 16:42:24
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🇲🇲 ✧ Weird Ven ✧ ⚛️ 🏳️🌈 :
Had total about 2 yrs with 2 narcissists
This video literally just read all of me
2026-11-01 20:41:30
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Groningen Begeleidt •Cynthia :
If you recognize this: you can walk away at any moment and cut off access. Do not try to change him, and do not change your own wonderful self. An inability to take personal responsibility is a weakness of the narcissist. Manipulation stems from a lack of self-assurance and an absence of strong character.
2026-11-01 18:42:20
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Sanda miz :
he told me he wanted my energy because it was every strong. sent chills down my spine
2026-11-01 18:18:13
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Wendy :
The silence on this topic shows how they protect this because once you know this, you can discern so much better. Teaching this as part of teaching emotional intelligence
2026-11-01 20:59:24
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Diamondforever_3Helena :
Don’t you just LOVE the way narcissists DISMISS you, like your feeling , your emotions and you as a person IS TOO MUCH for them
2026-11-01 20:23:35
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mmowatt :
My deceased husband! He almost destroyed me!
2026-11-01 17:00:51
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e_babes from Squat juice :
Synchronicity hits hard.
2026-11-01 20:23:01
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JediBAMF :
All of the above. Wasted over 15 years.
2026-11-01 19:06:34
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songbird :
Thank you so much! You stated it perfectly ❤️
2026-11-01 14:11:59
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tealtulip94 :
a really really big test that I've learned is RECIPROCITY. Look for the people who reciprocate on the small stuff. We deserve to be treated the way we treat others. It's NOT our job or responsibility to fix anyone. We cannot fix people. You might be able to gently HELP someone like this, but they should *NEVER* be your spouse or closest friend.
2026-11-01 16:44:19
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Jesse :
its literally so difficult. I dont know how to navigate the one im married too. it makes me cry everyday. im trashed inside and lash out at the people that love me most. like I'm a weapon. im bring so suppressed and stepped on i dont know what to do. ❤️
2026-11-01 21:50:39
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i_am_a_grownup :
Girl——I am sitting here nodding my head in total agreement-as if I am in church and you are serving up sermon on this Sunday morning. The EXACT depiction of me & my ex husband. Perfectly. As if you were there. Sheesh I love listening to you.
2026-11-01 17:47:29
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Hermit :
thank you. Apologies you know.
2026-11-01 21:22:51
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Swanky Hippy :
Fck - this is SPOT ON!!!!!! 🔥
2026-11-01 20:09:39
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mander903 :
Going through my divorce now to mine and it’s been the hardest and scariest relationship of my life by far
2026-11-01 15:38:12
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Lizzy Lou :
This is so spot on
2026-11-01 15:42:51
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Shari Mel @you2000 :
👍
2026-11-01 15:41:59
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Brambleweed :
My first husband wanted to be what I was. my current husband just enjoys being with me.
2026-11-01 19:48:56
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BreezyBri :
Same ♥️all truths 💯
2026-11-01 18:25:41
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sanya :
Unfortunately, true. Been there 😔✋
2026-11-01 19:26:31
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J.R. :
I feel this so much. 😖 i seem to be a magnet for male narcissists as i always try to see their perspective and to help them when they only take advantage of me and hurt my feelings without feeling even bad for it and keep doing the same thing and blame me for it and call me too intense. ❤️🩹
2026-11-01 14:39:17
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jason333ii :
Am I a narcissist🤔
2026-11-01 14:54:36
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