@mom.of.reality: Teenage parties. Halloween weekend. A whole new parenting chapter I apparently wasn’t prepared for. 😂 Parents of teens, I need your advice. How do you handle parties, curfews, knowing who’s hosting, and all the things nobody warns you about? Tell me your rules because I’m taking notes. 👀
1am curfew. No alcohol if you are driving. Call me if you ever feel unsafe. Don’t take anything from anyone.
2026-10-30 14:32:51
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Sheron Kemp :
1) Nothing good happens after midnight
2) You must call me if you want to change locations
3) No riding with others (can't guarantee their sobriety)
4) Blame me for the "lame" rules and as an excuse to leave
5) I will ALWAYS pick you up no questions asked
What you don't want is a kid who was so locked down in HS that they go nuts in College. Kids need some practice to make good decisions and guardrails when they make mistakes. Consequences are different once they are over 18!
2026-10-30 14:47:45
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Lolololol939495 :
I have two high schoolers. I offer as much freedom as possible. My parents were super strict and I rebelled
2026-10-30 16:13:27
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SHerrm26 :
I hate this stage of parenting so much
2026-10-30 13:28:49
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LB :
Fully charged phone. If I can see the phone dying on find my, I’m coming to get him.
2026-10-30 15:24:28
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Katslo18 :
Just prepare for your stomach to be in knots for 4 hours on a Friday and Saturday night.
2026-10-30 11:55:15
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FranForkentastic Frans :
My fyp is reading my mind right now. This is weird. Clearly all parents of teens are dealing with this this weekend
2026-10-31 15:21:12
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niccore5 :
No pills. None. Not even Advil. You never know. 11 curfew. Call me if you feel unsure.
2026-10-30 20:34:53
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treeesa :
I am in this phase right now with my daughter! Besides the endless convos we’ve had about being safe, I also bought a breathalyzer- and absolutely no sleepovers on nights she is out at a party. The breathalyzer is to hold her accountable. I trust her until she gives me a reason not to and that’s where the breathalyzer comes in :)
2026-10-30 08:51:34
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Stephanie Wells :
I drove my daughter to parties then picked her up down the road a bit. When she was a Freshman.
2026-10-30 02:33:24
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Lulu :
Idk I have a son. The entire month of October there was a party on the weekends. I do not know whos throwing the parties or if parents are even home. I teach my son how to act and we talk openly about drinking and the dangers of getting into a car with someone drinking even 1 drink. Also I can see where he is all times on Life360. Idk this is what works for us 🤷🏻♀️
2026-10-30 12:03:41
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jillballou480 :
Just drop off and pickup and make sure they are safe
2026-10-30 02:42:43
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Staton Blair Angel :
Have 2 seniors..: neither have asked to go to a party 😳 I guess my kids are boring 😆
2026-10-30 19:45:35
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$ :
I never partied as a teenager, don’t make this acceptable
2026-10-30 15:08:56
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twhoa7 :
Don’t need to speak to parents. Speak to your kids about rules and what’s appropriate. They can go to parties unless they break said rules. No leaving to go anywhere else unless I’m aware. Also call me anytime you are uncomfortable and you won’t be out past 11 pm. Last one is a non-negotiable
2026-10-30 12:45:15
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Nicole Rene 💋 :
Have you heard about the party app yet?😭 Apparently there’s an app that tells you where all the parties are! Meaning they don’t even know them😭 ya… times have changed.
2026-10-31 21:41:41
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Lisa Marie :
Each level of parenthood brings on new anxiety 😂. You get through one stage and something new comes
2026-10-30 12:36:40
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Ashley :
1am curfew! I will sometimes drive him and his friends around. My son is usually the driver because he doesn’t drink. If he does decide to, then he knows to call me and I’ll pick up. Didn’t have to worry about this till he was 16. Life 360 is on. Portable chargers in pockets or car. My best advice is keep communication open. Be real! We did this same shit wayyy worse but there was no tracking or videos. They are going to do it either way. I would rather know and he be safe. Listen to them. Kids just want to be heard. Don’t say rules. Say boundaries and respect.
2026-10-31 17:27:39
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my kid isn't cool enough to make the guest list. so big win for me, not so much for him.
2026-10-30 22:51:50
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kris88842 :
I feel like it’s going to happen so I want them to feel like they can be honest about where they are going to be
2026-10-30 02:47:59
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Jessica 😜 :
I was pretty wild when I was in high school and I know first hand, teens will do whatever they want and hide what they’re not supposed to do. With that, I’m pretty open with my teens. We just hosted an after party at our home after a homecoming dance. My daughter was open and said there will be people drinking. I clarified that I’m not providing any alcohol. She asked if both boys and girls that are drinking could sleep over, we agreed as we have extra space. I went to bed at 10pm and woke from noise every hour or two and then came out at 2am and talked to my daughter about winding down. I set up the air mattress and got bedding for some of the teens. They had a great time and ended up hanging until later the following day which was nice that they felt comfortable hanging with all the fam around. I didn’t have any parents check with me but I know the parents were asking their teens about details since we had both boys and girls sleeping over (in separate areas).
2026-10-30 17:53:20
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Ziggy Stardust :
I say this as mine is a freshman... but you send them and hope you raised them well enough to make the right choices
2026-10-30 19:17:16
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Ms. Gnome :
We don’t do sleepovers after parties. I can pick up or she can drive if she promises no drinking. She can always call me. We have conversations about zero alcohol and driving, not getting into cars with those driving. I always clear my calendar if she’s at a party to be available. It really is such a stressful time for parents but also a very important stage for them to learn independence. The balance is very hard for me.
2026-10-30 09:34:58
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Sam🧑🏼🍳🦞🏌️ :
I dident come home till 12:30 last night my mom just called at 11 and told me to turn the lights off when I got home
2026-10-31 19:16:04
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Ciprez Jennifer :
No parties period .
2026-10-31 11:34:20
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