@zakosmann1: I told her I'd leave her immediately. So she asked, “What if I told you I already did?" I went completely silent. She hadn't cheated. She was testing me because we'd been fighting for weeks, and she wanted to know if losing her would actually scare me. It did. Just not in the way she expected. didn't get angry. I asked her who it was. She laughed and told me she was joking. I didn't laugh. I said, "You don't ask a question like that unless you've already imagined the answer!" Then I grabbed my keys and left. I came back three hours later with a duffel bag. She thought I was bluffing. I wasn't. I told her the worst part wasn't believing she'd cheated. It was realizing she'd been waiting for me to prove I'd fight for her. I told her I'd spent the last few months feeling like she was constantly creating little emergencies just to see whether I'd stay. Every argument became a test. Every disagreement became, "Maybe we should just break up!" Every time I reassured her, she needed something bigger the next time. She cried and promised she'd stop I told her I believed her. Then I picked up my bag. "I believe you want to stop" I've been gone for four days. And for the first time, she doesn't know what to say to make me stay. Because maybe she wasn't trying to find out if I loved her. Maybe she was slowly teaching me how to live without her. Follow for more confessions. #fyp #edmonton #canada #america #africa

SecretsAndSentiments :

believe me,she already did.not a joke, but she did.

mercie bahati ♓️ :

men are so dramatic

Kanaka💸 :

I’ve actually had this exact experience with my ex-fiance every little thing that came up would always end in her saying “we might aswell end it”

Panyu :

only one simple answer really, why all the drama?

MarkDoesAThing 🇨🇦 :

i dated someone like this. i was stupid enough to come back 12 times. i told it was the last time. i knew it was already over, even kept my things packed. she would play those types of manipulative emotion games over my head constantly, at times even physically punch and hit me knowing i wouldn't hit back. it lasted a month after that convo. same shit so i told her i was done. last time i received any communication from her was a txt that said "i still love you". i gave it a moment to try to process it. there was even a tiny moment of joy. then came the last txt she ever sent "April fools! I SAID APRIL FOOLS HAHAHAHA" i never responded. i just deleted it and then her contact.

ncpd25 :

Review mirror...Don't look back. Mind games, no bueno......

martyro :

Good for you! Stupid games/tests; just not worth it!

Mvuyisi Cekwana 🏹 :

If you've been fighting and she asked you that question.... there was a third party. She cheated, bro.

𝒢𝒾𝓃𝒶 ♡ :

I hope you know the only reason a woman wants to know if a man will fight for her is if he’s lacking either emotionally or physically. Otherwise, a woman will not do that for no reason… so don’t turn this on her. You made that woman feel detached. You didn’t learn how to live without her, she learned she can be loved & never have to question the other persons feelings.

Erenaya Gaming :

The last time she did that, I finally agreed that we should go our separate ways. But she stayed and apologized for the first time, something she had never done during our previous fights. Since then, she has never brought up going our separate ways again.

peacetomykarma01 :

Bro who’s taking the pictures

mecelnova32xc :

Consistent Ultimatums illustrate incompetence

Kalashin :

Bro she’s already gone

Sergiob13 :

My ex taught me how to live without her for a full yr, didn’t realize it but I finally got the message. I ended everything four days ago, I’m at peace, calm and collected. Focusing on job, family, gym and friends. Stay strong brothers ❤️

Mingo :

Maybe did that for 7 years

George Peterson :

Had an ex call me crying saying she fell down the stairs, I said I’ll be right there then I get screamed at and told not to come over…told her I’m done with these bullshit games, good luck

Luis :

All fax no contact. Patrick Goudet has a great quote. "love them so.much that you leave them alone, let them do what they want and let.them be with who they want, thats what true love is."

Jose DE Leon :

yes I left since 2015 haven't gone back I help her when I can but not going back with her even if my daughter's ask me to I just can't and won't

bubba61 :

when a person is push and treated like there the least in the other life then one day they stop caring when they make everyone more important than the one they supposedly loved

DB4Mtns :

I chose peace

Julien :

Definition of a toxic relationship 😅

karma90 :

ZachMerricx :

stress thinking about it

Garymation :

Always say you’d be okay with them cheating as long as they are honest when it happens.

Nidge t :

Your better off out for sure