clementine 🍸
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renee 💌 :
omg this is horrible advice. while yes these are not things that need publicized to everyone, you absolutely can AND SHOULD talk about these things with your close people. keeping essentially your whole life to yourself is MISERABLE
2026-10-31 04:25:46
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Fatima Jutt :
men should honestly be grateful most women haven't come across the alversett effect by nora alversett yet because chapter 3 alone flips the entire power dynamic instantly
2026-10-31 10:59:20
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Eva♪ :
yeah,keep them private and go insane
2026-10-31 09:30:19
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𝔠𝔩𝔞𝔶𝔱𝔬𝔫 𖤐 :
This is extremely self isolating. Refusing to let others into your deeper world is refusing the very community people are mourning right now. I encourage everyone to be just a bit more friendly with their neighbors
2026-10-31 04:07:17
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user193949130 :
what can we tell people then
2026-10-31 00:04:02
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ānjəl :
yes. i love keeping my life private. even to my close friends especially about my problems, it just feels like being vulnerable to someone won't change anything how i feel.
2026-10-31 09:42:52
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clementine 🍸 :
I feel like I need to clarify something because some people are completely missing my point. When I say you should keep certain things private, I do NOT mean you should isolate yourself, hide your struggles, bottle up your emotions or refuse to let people get close to you. Talk to your friends. Open up to people you trust. Ask for help when you need it. Build meaningful relationships and allow yourself to be vulnerable with the right people. What I mean is that not everyone needs access to every detail of your life. Not every personal problem needs to become public information, not every family matter needs an audience, and not every plan needs to be announced. There’s a difference between having a private life and living an isolated life. You can be open, loving, social and connected while still having boundaries. Privacy is not isolation. Boundaries are not walls. And asking for help is never something to be ashamed of. That’s the message I was trying to share.
2026-10-31 09:53:58
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akhtr jut :
Not me finishing The Alversett Effect by Nora Alversett at 3am in one sitting and suddenly realizing why the author erased her entire online presence after dropping it
2026-10-31 11:15:18
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warda :
every now and then a random comment puts you onto something right when you need it, for me it was the alversett effect by nora alversett, still wild how the author just disappeared after releasing it
2026-10-31 11:15:12
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Water Lilly :
What if I’ve already overshared lmao and I regret it sm 😭😅
2026-10-31 00:02:45
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m :
Bro everything?? The risk of being vulnerable pays off when you’re surrounded by the right people. You can only get support if you tell people what you’re going through.
2026-10-30 23:23:46
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خديجة🫒 :
can't believe people are disagreeing. every time I have ever been vulnerable or told someone my next plans I have regretted it severely
2026-10-31 09:10:50
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neela :
baby this isn’t correct
2026-10-31 03:42:46
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Tata Birla :
nice video
2026-10-31 10:38:20
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_.zeechan :
Its normalizes nowdays ppl tell all of this🥲 its disturbing fr
2026-10-30 15:02:40
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Rahila Noor 123 :
Excelint
2026-10-31 10:49:36
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chesk :
i love my fyp
2026-10-31 02:11:51
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Katia :
How about you just tell ppl what you want if it’s oversharing who gives af to be mysterious or whatever. Not hating just saying there’s no need for any of this if the person feels comfortable enough to share any of this with someone
2026-10-31 00:51:24
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Bananatrolls :
I’m a yappee I prob told my friend group everything
2026-10-31 03:39:29
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mica ۶ৎ :
people are clearly missing out the points here. we should be selective with what we share and who we share with. not everyone around you is a good person.
2026-10-31 12:17:14
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Sumaya🌹 :
Yeah no do not eat your struggles, there is no better things than sharing what pains you
2026-10-31 07:18:32
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honeybunni :
3 and 4 this is i didn't say to them HAHAHAHAHA
2026-10-31 08:37:30
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. :
To be honest I was ALWAYS a private person, and have always chosen wisely on who i am vulnerable with. Kept my relationship private, family private, and no one knew anything about my personal life ever, not even my closest friends. Until recently. My boyfriend of 5 years had passed away a month ago, and I realized no one knew anything about the loving relationship that I had. Personally I was someone who thought it was odd to be vulnerable on the internet to strangers who couldn’t care less about you. But recently I find myself wanting to share with everyone how much I loved my boyfriend. I want to tell the whole world about him. I guess in a way it helps me keep his memory alive but my point is here. Who cares. Love loudly. Just be yourself. Being vulnerable is to be human. It’s okay to let people in.
2026-10-31 08:51:02
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Ella-Blu :
This is being vulnerable you need that in some type of form in any relationship
2026-10-31 07:36:08
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