Maryam🌝 :
I feel exactly what you're feeling, word for word. I've been deeply immersed in these thoughts for a while now. I'm still thinking, and I've decided to pray to Allah and rely entirely on logic and deep, personal research into Allah's sources, first and foremost the Quran, of course, and the sayings of the Prophet and his family (peace be upon them).
However, because many hadiths have been distorted by religious scholars, I've decided that any hadith I read, I'll check if it aligns with Allah's word in the Quran. We shouldn't rely on anyone because everyone is pursuing their own interests and imposing their complexes and psychological issues on us, especially us women. Therefore, we must act according to what Allah has distinguished us with from all other creatures: reason.
They dictate orders to us based on their own minds and attribute them to Allah. I'm not referring to the hijab alone, but to many other things, and I'm deeply saddened by this because we've been deceived for so many years. I don't know why no one speaks up about this and tries to distinguish right from wrong using their own intellect.
We will be held accountable for ourselves, and they will be held accountable for themselves and for us as well. Allah never said we should rely on human beings like us, who are neither prophets nor infallible, to manage our lives!
Therefore, I pray that Allah guides us all to the Straight Path, the path that brings us closer to Him and makes us worthy of His pleasure.
2026-11-04 03:38:47