I think the biggest obstacle to dating after being single for a long time isn't about the man (or woman). It's inertia.
In physics, inertia is the tendency to keep doing what you're already doing unless a force acts upon you.
When you've been single for years, you develop routines, independence and a comfortable lifestyle. Dating starts to feel like something competing with all the other things you could be doing.
The irony is that you're often waiting to feel excited about dating before taking action, when the excitement might actually come from getting moving.
Sometimes the biggest obstacle to finding a relationship isn't finding the right person. It's overcoming the inertia of being single.
2026-10-30 14:18:11
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franksdad100 :
we need to make dating fun again.
2026-11-11 20:40:25
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Shlomit (Shlomeeeet) :
And how are people getting into relationships???! That’s even more bizarre
2026-11-01 01:25:27
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Sarah-Catherine ⭐️ :
So, why are you going on the date? You don’t have to girly - just cancel and have a nice night in by yourself. If you don’t wanna date, don’t! 💕😘 xx
2026-11-11 16:54:29
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Lena K :
Seems that this game is over😁 dating is not giving anymore
2026-11-11 07:17:36
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KatieAitch :
wishing you the fluffiest baked potato with the tangiest cheddar. ❤️
2026-10-30 14:09:48
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Fenne_X :
Being single and having your home all to yourself is like winning the lottery everyday 🥳
2026-11-11 14:55:25
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Kungushots :
I’m 34 and I’ve given up🥲
2026-11-10 14:24:47
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omorfiabytara :
not botherd about dating 🤣🤣 i love going gym work solo holidays i really cant be botherd with men i am too comfortable in my own ways and my own company
2026-11-10 09:24:15
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A.Acosta | FemCare/FemTech :
I find I am frequently disappointed when I change my plans for men. Actually almost always.
2026-10-30 18:33:14
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Cheryl R :
We are not. Checked out a long time ago.
2026-10-30 14:01:54
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Shannon :
“Mentally completed dating” is so accurate. It’ll be 15 years in January and I don’t miss it 🤷🏻♀️
2026-11-01 20:53:07
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Nicole Ocran :
Honestly, I’m becoming more jaded by the second, like I just can’t 😅
2026-10-30 14:16:30
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simranb885 :
It’s utterly soul destroying honestly don’t even know what to say
2026-11-01 09:49:24
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jadedmermaid :
I have no desire whatsoever to date
2026-10-30 14:03:36
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Soul And Sparkle :
I refuse to be on apps, it’s like putting myself on clearance 😳
2026-11-01 14:10:52
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Josephine Jeffery :
It’s a risk cost analysis and hmm just not worth it
2026-10-30 22:54:19
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KissesFromRosie :
Darling. We have series to watch. And flights to catch.....✨
2026-10-30 14:15:49
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epicfreakshow :
eating a giant potato 😂😂😂 help
2026-10-30 14:02:55
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Goldie :
I gave up four years ago!!! how is anyone dating in 2026?
2026-10-30 21:55:34
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pg05950 :
All of the non date activities you listed sound 100x better than dating
2026-11-01 23:07:53
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Bobby :
Absolutely not i have totally given up on ever love at 56.
2026-10-30 18:24:31
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Tarot On The Narrow :
Nope, never dating again. It’s just hassle for me.
2026-10-30 17:47:23
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LakePowellMassageAndSpa :
me literally eating a giant potato while I watch this video
2026-11-01 22:43:25
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