This is 100% true. First year is shock. Second year is raw grief. 3rd year you begin to find yourself again, your new normal
2026-10-30 21:47:45
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Allison :
6 months in it’s only getting worse
2026-11-01 01:21:06
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Esmeralda :
Don’t tell me this. Barely been three months without my mama and I’m so sick and tired of it
2026-10-31 03:30:11
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Kerry :
I’m 10 months in and people stopped checking in on me a long time ago…
2026-10-31 18:56:24
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arme____ :
It’s been 13 yrs 🙋🏻♀️it doesn’t get better.
2026-10-30 23:05:11
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HeyitsEm32 :
17th nov is 1 year since my dads been gone and people stopped checking on me about 10 months ago so idk what to make of this🤦🏻♀️
2026-11-01 00:11:21
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Lissette Fernandez :
Going on 3 years Dec 27th and yes definitely the 2nd was worse than the first but I don’t know what to expect going forward 😭😭😭i feel like it’s just going to be harder💔🙏🏼😭my Mikey forever 16 on 12/27/2023
2026-10-31 20:01:57
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OliviaBenson meets BethDutton :
It is a privilege to grieve. It means they were loved deeply.
2026-10-31 18:22:59
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ATHENA :
Didn’t nobody check in with me the first year so it’s always been hard
2026-10-30 22:47:39
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TheeAudacity :
this is my second year...shyt sucks and I'm angry still.
2026-10-31 18:20:55
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Jackie Davis :
I hate it. Her birthday is in 6 days. It’s her second one in heaven. I miss my mommy
2026-10-30 20:49:23
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Kassie Cabrera :
Everyone stopped checking in 3 weeks after 😅
2026-10-31 00:25:23
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@alex :
That pain never leave your body😭it get easy but will for ever be broken
2026-10-31 17:07:49
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Christine. :
It’s only been two months. Going the rest of my life makes me feel sick to my stomach
2026-10-30 23:32:32
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queen of peen :
It’s different for everyone. I’m choosing not to move like that, but to accept the terrible, heart wrenching days and minutes, however and whenever they fall. 😔
2026-10-30 21:34:21
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brandy0430 :
It’s true, the second year about took me out! I am on year 5 without my mom, 6.5 years without my younger sister and almost 3 without my dad! I say the first year is a fog and the second year is when it all kicks in!
2026-10-30 18:08:26
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Mary :
2018 and 2024. Both my parents are dead and I dream of them almost every single night and I'm not OK.
2026-10-31 00:39:13
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Megan :
Oh the way I naively thought the first year was the worst… in reality I was still in shock because man did year 2 HIT 😭
2026-10-30 21:47:31
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MorticiaAddamsismyhomie :
lost my dad this morning. I cant hurt more than this
2026-10-31 11:20:41
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chloe⁷ :
for me it didn’t really hit till the 3rd-4th yr🥲
2026-10-30 23:04:38
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🐆🌹 :
It’s been 5 months and i been losing my mind . Wym it gets worse ?
2026-10-30 21:28:54
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it’s only been 2 weeks and i am already dying wym it gets worse
2026-10-31 00:38:56
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Pavlovcat :
Yeeeeah, sorry about that. I think grief reveals deeper fears and traumas, especially if the death was unexpected/violent/unjust. I went through a spiritual crisis, panic attacks, agoraphobia. It was awful. Therapy helped. The book I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye was also helpful (my mom's death was very unexpected and traumatic.)
2026-10-30 22:30:05
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