@mindful.by.b: does the lifestyle this person has or brings into your life align with what you ultimately want? #Lifestyle #dating #relationships #longtermrelationships

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mhysablackfyre
mhysablackfyre :
Facts bc I am NOT going hiking or camping!!
2026-10-31 15:12:44
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marelimca
marianne :
100%. My grandpa always had this quote, “see what their version of normal is and if that matches your version of normal.”
2026-10-30 20:50:47
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pskit
PSkitt :
Yes! My ex only ever wanted to sit on the couch and watch sports. We could never do anything because SOME game was on. My now husband and I are always going out and about doing fun things and it’s AMAZING!!!!!
2026-10-31 02:54:27
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luxefantasia
Kyre :
My boyfriend SAYS he wants the same lifestyle but he can’t get off the couch…..
2026-10-31 19:07:25
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vanessadoescornn
Vanessa 318k 🥰 :
I started swiping left on every man who had tons of outdoorsy hiking and camping photos. No regrets.
2026-10-31 22:23:23
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nikki.sisodia
nikki :
this! I ended my 5 yr relationship bc I felt our lifestyles didn’t align anymore. I love him so much but know it was the right decision
2026-10-30 19:47:10
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kaykaykenna_
kaykaykenna_ :
And you’re choosing their family
2026-11-01 08:32:59
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taj111111110
talia 🇨🇭🐄 :
We tend to actively ignore differences in lifestyle, habits, intellect even political and erhical topics when we fancy someone. When the first flush of fancyness is gone by month 4 or 6, you just drag it on until you can admit you chose wrong, once again.
2026-11-01 08:40:27
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a_222244
Ashley🤍 :
This … consideration… consistency.. such important things
2026-10-31 08:58:23
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dontresuscitatezach
Zachari :
Also people claim they share a similar lifestyle and it takes several weeks, if not months to find out they actually do not
2026-10-30 21:59:02
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beokayla
K :
I think it also depends on how much you two are willing to incorporate aspects of one another into each other’s lives despite not being 100% similar. For example, I love exercising and meal prepping but he doesn’t. However, he shows interest in what I’m doing and encourages me along the way and vice versa. He also wants to go out and do things with me which makes a huge difference.
2026-10-31 16:21:51
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emilyjane2037
Emily Jane :
it's actually crazy how much rick lewis changed my perspective on manifestation
2026-11-01 03:33:44
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johnj.lee
John J. Lee :
I’m pretty sure lifestyles evolve for your early 20’s onward
2026-10-30 21:43:06
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isaiahsamuel54
isaiahsamuel :
I thought this was common sense
2026-10-31 22:55:49
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nicolejxoxo
nicolejxoxo :
No bc he likes to drink a lot w his “friends” who don’t really like him sober lol
2026-10-31 01:32:30
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vagabond9008
KatieJo0890 :
I have ended a few relationships over this exact reason. they weren't bad people, they just never wanted to do much or get out. my husband and i are always finding new hobbies, staying active, etc. It has made it hard to find girlfriends though, because most I meet only ever want to "do brunch" lol
2026-10-31 15:11:35
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vbambi.290
vbambi.290 :
Annnnnd their familybb
2026-10-30 21:23:04
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qammarabbaskhokhar599
Qammar Abbas khokhar :
i know it sounds extra to bring up a book in a comment section, but the alversett effect by nora alversett rewired something in my head that i genuinely cannot undo
2026-10-31 10:34:41
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jordanwood790
jordanwood790 :
The problem is the young person you are doesn’t know what they want later on what’s good for the time isn’t what’s good long term and that’s ok you learn you grow and that’s how you then know what you want
2026-11-01 04:13:55
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fairybee00
bee :
the guy I dated wants to always ride motorcycle w me but I noticed he always zigzag the motor (i dunno the right term) and it' really really dangerous and I thought it was just a one time thing but he loves doing it while I ride on the back.. I left him..
2026-10-31 18:55:41
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hampkin_
hampkin :
My ex mostly stay at home and be lazy' my other ex can't sit still and likes to go out without cleaning for months. My now husband we like staying home and going out just balance. We cook together, bake and love playing tennis we are in the same club different team. I don't feel pressure doing stuff unlike the past relationship i've had. It was stressful.
2026-10-31 22:10:22
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pokemoniee
Monica :
So true, I wanted to be out and about sober in daylight and she wanted to be at the bar from sundown to sunrise. It took me 14 years to finally throw in the towel. Don’t be like me!
2026-10-31 18:21:27
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jewelsss47
jewelsss47 :
Yep! Love doesn’t trump lifestyle. I didn’t want to be partying and drinking 😩
2026-10-31 14:26:21
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lisaspeers5
lisaspeers5 :
You mentioned it in passing, “core values.” Do your values align? So important. We’ve been together 40 years and we don’t always agree but our values are aligned. Still adore him.
2026-10-31 14:01:36
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verichi_
verichi_ :
When you associate to a man who stays watching netflix and playing videogames every weekend you life quality average goes down
2026-10-31 16:03:41
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