@thebiggersthebetter: Losing yourself to motherhood can result in finding a much better version of yourself after #motherhood #realtalk #momlife #matrescence #postpartum

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justkatied23
katie dickerson :
Becoming a mom gave me a backbone
2026-10-30 17:09:56
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sixfeetundertheyolo
s :
Matrescence didn’t cure my anxiety, but it reduced it by like…80%
2026-10-31 03:28:55
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lisa.huynh.knits
Lisa Huynh :
I feel SO connected to every mother. Like the fungi network we are all connected
2026-11-01 18:02:22
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j.rtt01
j.rtt01 :
My anxiety DIED when i became a mother. No time to overthink or worry.
2026-11-13 06:41:45
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crybabyrockstarrei
REI MARI 🪽🔮 :
i feel spiritually untouchable. my daughter is a shining beacon of hope, and represents the light at the end of the very depressing tunnel of pregnancy, isolation, etc. i can’t explain it. you have to go through it to know.
2026-11-01 12:28:39
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gothicmoth420
Deez nuts :
Before my daughter I was very impulsive and immature and after my daughter I’ve became softer and I feel I enjoy life more especially through her eyes. I feel I have more of a back bone and I’m also starting to fullly feel it now that my daughter is almost two. I’m getting back into my hobbies like makeup and gaming. But to do my makeup now and have my toddler look at me and go “wooow” like that feels so much better than just doing it and posting it and my friends saying my makeup looks good. It’s like she recognizes that mommy is good at doing makeup and it amazes her
2026-11-12 14:45:50
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kubhaus
Natalie | Kub Haus :
Yessss, it’s an ugly process but it’s sooooo liberating
2026-10-30 18:29:13
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avscotty
🪽🪽👁️avery👁️🪽🪽 :
i used to be so careless with my time and my life
2026-10-30 20:31:20
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takingkarabusiness02
KaraSan :
I simultaneously fear nothing and everything all at the same time.
2026-11-12 14:32:07
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lizyrd
Liz :
It puts EVERYTHING into perspective fr
2026-10-30 19:05:37
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styldbykira
. :
I’ve never felt more like myself
2026-10-30 21:11:30
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dunamis705
Dunamis :
Exactly and when they say having children is selfish like wut? 😂
2026-10-30 18:46:39
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lilwoman420
Lilwoman420 :
I’ve always been a people pleaser. Became a mom and realized I had to advocate for my kid because he can’t do it himself. Made me stand up for myself all the time now, whereas before I would roll over. It’s so wild.
2026-10-30 20:07:52
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reflectionsofareflector
Brittany :
THIS! I don’t have the capacity to give a fuck about anything that doesn’t truly matter!!!
2026-10-30 19:19:00
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teaologypod
Maya Wilson | Writer :
Motherhood made me more urgent about following MY dreams and goals to show my kids that commitment is possible
2026-11-01 03:15:42
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itsrebekahcollins
itsrebekahcollins :
Motherhood killed my people pleasing nature and I love it
2026-11-04 17:14:36
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angelfaewitch
deianira2.0_ :
Ugh it’s sooooo spiritually deep. And very humbling.
2026-11-02 01:36:08
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its_always_october
Witchy girl ✨ :
I no longer have insecurity about my body. I speak my mind with my full chest. I’m not scared of anyone and I don’t people please. I brought life into this world, I can take life just as easily. And knowing I have that power is insane!
2026-11-04 21:18:23
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auroralaurentt
Aurora :
Being a mother used to be so hard for me. Thank God I found Evelia Hayes and her book Mom, I'm Not Like You. Things are so much easier now, and my relationship with my teenagers has gotten so much better. Wouldn't recommend it though, because now my teens won't stop talking to me and I have no free time anymore 😂
2026-11-07 00:52:13
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megdellamea
Meg DellaMea :
YES. I’m actually running a survey that’s trying to measure the identity shift when women become mothers. I’d love to send you the link if you’re interested in being a part!!
2026-11-01 20:37:22
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wumbummer
RudeDude :
Being a stay at home dad incinerated any sense of self i had. I felt like my I was born at the same time as my daughter. I might be 37 but we’re also both 11.
2026-10-30 19:49:02
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menapagro
Mena :
100% felt this deeply. Get this - My mom unexpectedly died when I was 5 mos pregnant with her first grandchild. Oh old me is SUPER DE@D ☠️I
2026-10-30 19:42:41
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alaura.fitts
Alaura Fitts :
I used to really struggle with depression and now I don’t have time to be depressed 😂
2026-11-03 04:26:16
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miripuf
Miripuf :
I'm in the middle of the ugly of it 😭can't wait to see who I become.
2026-11-01 20:52:33
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ashtynmckayla
ashtyn :
can anyone shed some light on when they felt they were actually reaping the benefits of this process rather than just consciously experiencing it? i’m 6 months pp and i feel like all i do everyday is process the loss of my old self without actually coming to terms with it
2026-10-31 16:27:14
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