@startingoveratforty: Let me guess, your husband would never… #fyp #narcissist #abuserecovery #abuseawareness #abuse

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pawnshopoysters
pawnshopOysters :
if it was abusive it was not trad wife life.
2026-10-31 01:31:27
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n3ssa0611
Vanessa🌞 :
THATS why it’ll always be “get your degree BEFORE getting married”
2026-10-31 00:40:18
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nickiupstate
Nicki :
Before any of you single or childless women start feeling sorry for them just remember they were looking down their nose on you alongside their husbands when they were married
2026-10-30 23:21:18
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probablysatan
probablysatan :
you see women and teenagers bragging about being a trad wife, but no men brag about being a trad husband or having a trad wife
2026-10-31 00:48:00
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cornflowers71
🌸🌼🌸CornFlowers🌸🌼🌸 :
when we women in our 40s try to warn them, we're called old and bitter, and we should have chosen better
2026-10-30 23:05:22
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salena2048
✨️salena ✨️ :
If they can feed you, they can starve you, and that goes both ways
2026-10-30 22:21:08
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motherglitterr
Hannah🖤 :
The separation started 2022, and I finish my bachelor’s degree this December!
2026-10-31 00:01:24
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pandawalrus85
PandaWalrus :
My nearly 18 yr old has zero interest in men. It is such a huge relief.
2026-10-31 00:18:42
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sashafvqu8h
Sasha :
They swear they’re different [Crying]
2026-10-30 23:13:53
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noisycricket00
Noisy Cricket :
I’ll never EVER do it again …
2026-10-31 02:22:07
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sonoran_nomad
Shawna Nichole :
Trad (ish) SAHM in my 40’s…I’m still married over 2 decades later…also, my kids are in college, and will not be following my footsteps. I’m making sure of it.
2026-10-31 02:26:42
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boatwright76
Heather Boatwright :
i broke free of that BS my parents raised my sisters and i to marry off and i was the youngest i said nope and left at 17. I am very successful, bought my own home pay my own bills 50, fit healthy and live a good life UNMARRIED 😆💅
2026-10-31 00:01:52
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mossymilkersx
🦋 𝔏𝔦𝔫𝔡𝔷𝔦𝔢 🦋 :
I'm lucky to have started the process at 30. I just signed up for funeral school!
2026-10-31 02:41:11
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nicolazadrozny
KEC30 :
Every 18 year old girl with thoughts that a man is a career choice should see this. For the OP, you will get through this and come out stronger and wealthier, just keep plodding x
2026-10-30 23:35:07
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grumpyskirtgirl
Tina :
Yeahhhhhh 49 and starting a job.
2026-10-31 01:46:16
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justalovely1
Justalovely1 :
Nope, divorced in my 20’s and found a loving man so I can still be a trad wife and raise all 8 of our kids in our blended family
2026-10-31 00:46:24
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ldrn_jess
J :
Heavy in the “my husband would never”
2026-10-31 01:57:30
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gattaramichelle77
Bree 😻 :
When I was younger and working at a gas station an older woman came in crying. She had just found the strength to leave and didn’t know how to gas up the car because he never let her. She warned me. That was almost 30 years ago and I never forgot her. Good for you. 🫶
2026-10-31 00:17:59
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his_4_ever77
Gratefully Blessed :
Umm I’m the outlier. I’ve been a happily married trad wife for 34 years and it only gets better. My adult children pour into me with the same love and attention I poured into them. I could not have been the mother I am without the ability to always be there no matter what. I did collect degrees though just in case 😘
2026-10-31 01:04:25
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birdiessunshine
Lynn :
We tried to tell you to create a plan of self sufficiency
2026-10-30 23:42:40
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lisas2023
lisaS123 :
56 here. 24 years of marriage. wasn't allowed to go back to college or get a job. now im starting over
2026-10-31 01:37:00
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rene_alize
Amber Rene :
They’re not ready for this conversation
2026-10-31 01:43:26
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bzs2130
B :
not all of us are divorced. some of us never got married. Some of us saw the red flags and said nope and listened when we were told men only get worse after marriage.
2026-10-30 21:25:41
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likeevegotbitten
Midnight Matriarch :
Or in 50s. It’s bleak ladies! Don’t do it. Just live your life without a MAN
2026-10-31 00:41:32
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sevenwaveskristine
Kristine :
Yeah and it’s sad that half of the young girls on here will be us, no matter what we say :(
2026-10-30 21:24:41
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