Honey-far Abwooli :
I think the biggest lesson from Hajji Bakaluba’s videos is that men need to RE THINK the “comfort” they have given themselves on certain matters. Being promiscuous, the usual “omusajja asajalata” notion. Men need to rethink the peace with those decisions because;- 1. They comfortably do it assuming that women have been raised and conditioned to forgive them. Some believe its ordinary, women can deal with it, they will be fine ideally! Gentlemen… women will not be fine! Its true what he is saying. You will move and think its like as usual but most women, will keep married to you but what you won’t see is the growing resentment. You will think you were forgiben yet you are being weighed, everyday, to assess if the arrangement is still feasible for her or her kids. Today it can be seen in the way women detach easily, our fore mothers used to do so too but the absence of finnavial indepence kept them put longer! That is why eventually, husbands randomly dies in bathrooms… random heart attacks, after the kids have all studied or graduated! So, men need to RE THINK and understand that actions have consequences, before you comfortably say “this is how we men are”, also ask yourself, exactly how are women wired!? 🤔
2026-10-31 03:59:39