@i.see.her_: When a grieving person says, “It feels like just yesterday,” I let that sink in because those words carry so much weight. The shock of how quickly life can change. The shock of how little control we have over time, and how little control we sometimes have over what happens to the people we love. And how could it not feel like yesterday when our minds keep revisiting the day it happened, imagining all the scenarios that might have prevented it? “I wish they hadn’t taken that route on that fateful day.” “I wish I had been there.” And even over a year later, I still have scenarios I haven’t gotten to, ones in which I could have saved my brother. #ItWasJustYesterday #SiblingLoss #GriefAndTime #TraumaticLoss #LifeAfterLoss