@lezberealll:

JudeBarton🆘 :

Except now they can go back and edit their messages on almost all communication apps. Event texts.

Swiss Army knife :

It’s why I never delete texts and why I hate when people call me, I always say “just text me”.

user528263548330 :

yup. I have to reread conversations several times before and after it sent/recieved

honeyboney :

unfortunately my mom only communicates in voice messages

littlesthoney :

THIS IS WHY I have kept 3+ years of texts from my cousin and stopped deleting them after fights, because she would bend the truth and rewrite history. When I told her I haven’t deleted anything in over 3 years and started JOURNALING about it, she stopped screwing with me 😂❤️not completely tho- not until I finally blocked her as a birthday present to myself 😌🤷🏼‍♀️

Dee :

wow this makes so much sense

Pearl 💫 Diamond :

I finally feel some validation seeing this. i've hated in person anything and prefer text conversations. I didnt realize the amount of times I had to recheck something said. even though the person will still claim they said or typed something wrong

Bethany :

Dang- I just realized why my mom is always wanting to “talk in person” or have a “family meeting“ instead of over text- no paper trail!

JescoLevi1 :

Oh wow. Never thought about this but it makes sense to me.

Yingy D. Zingy :

I hate talking specifically for this reason. You cant twist the story to your own end at your convenience with a paper trail

Moi :

For me, it’s all about having that documentation. I saved that shit forever.

River :

ive unfortunately learned the phrase "I know im right so you cant tell me that im wrong" after showing people the proof that they said something else, doesn't go wel...

imani . :

wow .. i swear ive been trying to understand why i prefer texting to phone conversations ..

Mike H :

…OOOOHHH.

Aaron, Tim, and 642k others :

ouch

Kat :

legit

aliciaburgin581 :

yeah that sounds about right but never thought of it like that at all 🫤

Christopher Swift :

Cathryn Elizabeth45 :

So you have time to think of a response that won’t trigger them but will still get your point across.

user8785795735 :

Yup. I need to have communication in writing bc I was called a liar anytime my sibling did something to me. Not only do I not confront anyone in person anymore but I have to express myself in writing somehow or else I will feel like I did as a kid.

Brenda :

yup

Mindy Greenlee :

Facts

Goblin :

then you realize that tone and body language carry huge impacts on communication and there for limiting your growth due to trama. anyone with trama is seen on the "slower" path, school, relationship, work, ect but they are working through daily reflexes from past trama

IriaBloo :

yep

It's Just Lara :

Yet another thing that healed after years of feeling safe with my boyfriend.