Lindsey Shelton
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Jenny :
grieving the living is ruthless
2026-10-31 01:57:54
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RIZZY 💋 :
And they LOVEEE to say “you only get 1 mom” .. WELL I ONLY HAVE 1 LIFE. There’s no sequel, so I gotta put me first
2026-10-31 03:41:12
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🫧 jayden 🪷 :
STOP going into nursing bc the environment is familiar KILLED ME
2026-10-31 01:22:24
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Hali Jessica :
I cut off my sister. The stress of cutting off communication is far less than the stress of manipulation.
2026-10-31 01:46:03
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xoxobonss :
The “my mom can love me and also not understand her accountability and responsibility to apologize to me and not a I’m such the worst mom…” hits HARD.
2026-10-31 01:16:16
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Lexi ◡̈ :
I get it. My mom screams “I’ll just disappear” when I try to bring anything up to her. I cut her off and feel 10x better. And it’s hard because as a Nursing Student not having a parent to share the good exam scores and stories with, actually sucks. You are seen 🫂
2026-10-31 01:27:17
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Judy Bs favorite things :
One of the big reasons I also went into nursing. 😓
2026-10-31 11:29:42
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Jay :
Oh my god girl…… becoming a nurse because it’s familiar to fix things during chaotic times. You are speaking to my
2026-10-31 02:49:09
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Hey, Shawna Rae | Honest Finds :
Missing a version that doesn’t exist is exactly how I feel! I missed the version of my mom I knew growing up. She wasn’t that person anymore.
2026-10-31 01:51:21
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Kendra Mason :
Every time this kind of conversation comes up with my mom. I just want to look at her and just tell her you were the example of what to never do as a parent. And just leave it at that. I don’t ever hardly talk to her. I was never truly her priority. And family wants acts like that’s not true. And that she deserves credit just for getting sober.
2026-10-31 10:56:52
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spicydejavuqueen2010 :
I’m grieving who I needed her to be.. who I thought she could be if I was just enough. But since I cut her out my life has improved because I’m not worried about her and her feelings.. therapy has helped me so much this year.. I get how you’re feeling
2026-10-31 11:34:09
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Papitaslocas15 :
I cut off my 2 sisters, 1 brother and my mom after my father died. While finishing nursing school, my NCLEX and getting married. Do I miss them? Yes.. I miss belonging to a family, but my mental health and my little family came first. I do catch myself saying “I wish I had that” when I see my friends having a healthy loving relationship with their parents.
2026-10-31 03:42:25
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kmrocks :
To me grieving the relationship you DESERVED to have is the hardest. That’s why we hold on so long
2026-10-31 10:56:16
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Trianna3 :
I cut my mom off about two years ago also. It wasn’t the first time I had done it. But it was definitely the last. I used to yearn for my mom and miss her whenever I went no contact. Now? I might miss the mom I deserved, but that’s not her. And I have no regrets or remorse. She wasn’t at my wedding and she will never meet my children and that brings me SO much peace.
2026-10-31 01:25:33
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jacey🦋 :
i’m an er nurse and there was a period where i was so anxious so walk into for hours beforehand to the point id sob, when i thought about leaving my therapist told me “it’s okay to not choose chaos, you’ve already proven you can handle it” in reference to my past😅
2026-10-31 04:49:02
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✨🍁Amy.Elle🍁✨ :
Just because my mother loves me DOES NOT mean I feel loved by her.
2026-10-31 08:27:05
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M°a°r°i°e :
22 years. Still miss who she could've been to me and my kids
2026-10-31 10:46:32
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cheyennemarie96 :
Unethical by faouzia describes how I feel about my parents
2026-10-31 02:58:51
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Anna 🌝 :
It’s so hard mourning someone who is still alive 😔
2026-10-31 01:41:42
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Courtney :
“I miss a version of her that doesn’t exactly exist” Feel this so much and I think not being able to admit that the person you thought they were or hoped they were doesn’t actually exist is what keeps people from realizing what’s wrong and keeps us dealing with people who continuously hurt us. 😩
2026-10-31 01:29:55
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suchalonelydayyy :
Same. 0 contact with both my parents. Hugs 🙃🙃🙃
2026-10-31 01:14:57
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Nevaeh_baby222 :
This just gave me motivation to do it thank you
2026-10-31 01:13:29
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kaitlyn 🤪 :
thanks for putting into words what some of us can’t do. and thank you for being so real🤍
2026-10-31 01:31:26
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claire_7777 :
Been no contact for 2+ years as well- ‘hampstead’ Ariana grande is the closest song I can say relates to how it feels to be no contact and making that hard choice
2026-10-31 02:02:43
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primitiveinpineville :
I feel this so hard. Cutting a parent off feels like something you’re “not allowed to do,” but the child version of me would claw at the space I have from that person now.
2026-10-31 01:19:24
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