@imjustkesha7: Keeping your partner updated isn’t about asking permission. It’s about being thoughtful enough to keep them included in your life. Little things like that build emotional security. #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #CommunicationMatters #EmotionalSecurity #RelationshipGoals
She thought it was controlling. No, I just want to be considered. She bought flights and theatre tickets with a friend on a Friday and only when I asked what we were doing that weekend did she tell me we was flying out on Sunday for a trip. We lived together and lived with my kids. We had shared responsibilities.
2026-10-31 03:24:01
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bobooh_yth3raa :
consideration as a form of love ....it keeps the bond
2026-10-31 04:48:55
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Amakhosi we Hat trick ✌🏾 :
Transparency is always better than honesty
2026-10-31 05:53:37
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TGlas21💙 :
A little communication goes a long way.
2026-10-31 02:39:52
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🌻Nothando🍒Tyra :
"Why do you always have to let him know what's happening " coz i love it when he does that. and I love being considerate
2026-10-31 11:22:01
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Charnita Robinson :
It’s respect, consideration and common courtesy
2026-10-31 11:29:02
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scotty ♡ :
Its consideration and transparency
2026-10-31 07:27:26
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cecil :
I wish he'd see this
2026-10-31 04:55:11
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Cinnamon Boy :
And when I say this they call me anxiously attached
2026-10-31 03:59:42
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noneedforglasses :
He genuinely doesn’t care to hear what I have going on 😭 OHHH BUT WITH THAT OTHER GIRL HE WAS TRIPLE TEXTINGGGGG
2026-10-31 06:29:02
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Ramblin :
Need morning women like this
2026-10-31 11:23:44
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Miss..M :
Am dating a woman and she taught me to keep updates on everything. It's a LDR and funny enough i find it natural to keep informing her about everything i do, i don't find it exhausting or controlling, but knowing what her day looks like via text makes me feel like im right there beside her. It's amazing 🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-10-31 04:20:59
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only1_shima ❤️🥰 :
I updated him I'm going to bed,with him on a video call only for him to ignore me,I repeated it more than twice, ignored me right in my face.
oh no we had no issues or arguments.
he just ignored me.
I'm a big fan about updating ur partner but some partners will make u feel like you are disturbing them.
2026-10-31 04:30:55
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Lindsey Hill :
Last weekend I told my fiancé “I should be home by 4.” I didn’t get mad when he called at 4:08 making sure I was okay. It’s amazing that to feel that loved. and cared about.
2026-10-31 11:08:54
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Nena Moreno :
It’s being considerate. Everything now is being controlled. And when they don’t update them they don’t care.
2026-10-31 06:23:26
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KoreyWise✨ :
and i be thinking she doing too much? Thnx and i will do better now
2026-10-31 04:22:26
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TubatseMHR :
We even share our live locations whenever 1 of us is going out of town. And it’s not about keeping tabs but about their safety.
2026-10-31 04:34:54
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Marques :
this is exactly how i feel, they should consider me how i consider them
2026-10-31 05:04:47
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Court 🔮 :
I am anxiously attached but avoidant because of abuse. partner is golden retriever boy always calling and texting. I had to learn the difference between overbearing and exciteability. I try to say "hey I might not answer when you're in break cause I'm at dinner but we can talk after work". it's a communication that helps him rmemebr when I don't answer. we both have BPD and feeling rejected causes bad spirals. so we have to communicate
2026-10-31 11:15:38
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Jayla :
Yup just broke up with him bc he didn’t consider me AT ALL!
2026-10-31 11:14:16
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Lyss🍄 :
It is the bare minimum!
2026-10-31 09:34:54
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Beau :
My partner and I have life 360, yet we still text each other when we get to work/home as an update. I find it very nice
2026-10-31 05:58:35
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Network :
My girl and I can only date a few times a month but we are in constant update mode all day every day .
2026-10-31 10:01:58
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Peter Kazembe :
been preaching this for years and years but I was labeled as controlling
2026-10-31 09:41:48
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