Mine has zero emotional intelligence. At first I loved his "whatever you want" attitude and how laid back he was. But 20 years later I know he has zero ability to process emotions unless they completely overwhelm him. Zero ability to see what others need unless it is bluntly pointed out. 🙄
2026-10-31 16:49:58
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Twinkletoes :
And God forbid her sons treats you well, she will resent you for it!
2026-10-31 20:19:48
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Tracy 🎀 :
Oh this actually makes everything make sense
2026-10-31 13:21:44
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𝙰𝚗𝚐𝚎́𝚕𝚒𝚌𝚊 :
And the mother in law will make your life hell
2026-10-31 19:05:31
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Jennifer Snyder950 :
This is my ex husband
2026-11-01 17:05:28
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camel4251 :
Thats not always true. I taught my sons to be men. Whatever their father did not do, I showed them why it needed to be done and how if they chose to have a family, that famil came first.
2026-11-01 10:20:19
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Nat Pugh :
We always blame the men but I've always found its the women standing behind them.
2026-10-31 20:38:56
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CC :
Yeah. I figured this out way too late.
2026-11-01 01:42:50
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natsy833 :
You know my ex? 😂😂
2026-10-31 10:03:28
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54321 :
Going through this now and leaving for the same reason, the mom think she is the wife.
2026-10-31 19:08:04
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DeeAnnDisney 🇦🇺 :
It’s even worse once his father passes, and he’s her only child ……
2026-11-01 06:38:39
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Samantha 🖤 :
Thanks Kia i could’ve used this message 14 years ago! 😩
2026-10-31 18:42:16
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user3823615999800 :
My narcissistic wife has turned my daughter into a narcissist
2026-11-01 12:13:13
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Koraline :
I can't help but feel like once again we're blaming women for a man's behaviour.
2026-11-01 11:20:10
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Cristol's Cart :
Now you tell me...
2026-11-01 09:36:46
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trace :
Mine was like that. Her son is my saviour and so is she 🥰
2026-11-01 13:37:45
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Heather :
Unless the mother is also super critical and then son ends up w learned helplessness and a defeated personality.
2026-10-31 20:16:36
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Meowdy :
This. If they don’t become narcissistic, they are still absolutely tethered to their mother. Your lives will be centered around her until the day she dies—but the catch is that he will likely die first from the stress of taking care of her entire life and house.
2026-10-31 21:05:07
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OnlyTennIsee :
I married him… and he’s the most dependable man I’ve ever met in my life.
2026-10-31 19:41:42
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tori gann :
FACTS! Check how his relationship with his mom is like before marrying him! Trust
2026-10-31 17:13:00
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user3450809988978 :
Also the lack of emotional intelligence because the mother never knew it either.
2026-11-01 11:43:30
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Amelia☆ :
run in the other direction trusstttt
2026-11-01 11:46:54
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caligrown💣 :
Could’ve told me this 12 years ago
2026-11-01 06:17:55
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Angie :
He abandoned home while were married neglecting his child no communication in a week now and hiding behind his whole family
2026-10-31 22:23:58
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sierra :
so no wonder his mom doesnt like me
2026-10-31 20:32:42
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