@midestar40: My 75-year-old father wants to marry a 42-year-old woman, and he says they are in love. I don't approve of their relationship; I'm sure she's only with him because of his money. I need to make him understand, but he won’t listen. I'm looking for advice on how to convince him. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? #creatorsearchinsights #familyadvice #relationships #agingparents #dilemma
Advise him to put everything he has into a trust before he ties the knot
2026-10-31 15:10:04
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russell page763 :
Let the man be happy.
2026-10-31 15:00:45
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appleuser292965 :
Prenuptial
2026-10-31 16:16:17
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Travelling Linguist :
Sacrifice your inheritance for your father's happiness. Or is the money more important to you?
2026-10-31 14:21:10
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nancywagner733 :
had that happen to me also ,but she took him to Vegas when he was broke moved in with is til he died ,
2026-10-31 16:11:47
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Sonny Craig, U. S.Army'78 PHX :
tell him to try and get a prenup. she'll object instantly.
2026-10-31 16:02:06
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Michael Thompson :
he doesn't care what it costs to not die alone.. pretty simple.
2026-10-31 15:20:11
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donaldclark89 :
its his life let him live it .
2026-10-31 14:56:18
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Valerie Brumleve :
Ask him to tell her that he has put everything that he owns in your name and all he comes with is his love for her and to see her reaction and that should tell both of you whether she loves him or she loves the fact that he’s old and has money
2026-10-31 14:13:39
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Dana :
Have him make an appointment with an elder attorney who can help him protect his assets through a trust before they marry. The attorney can talk to him completely unbiased and without emotion about his options
2026-10-31 14:58:44
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Crusader for Christ :
1. Get a lawyer. Declare him incompetent, and at risk of elder abuse. OR 2. let him suffer the the consequences. CHOOSE # One .
2026-10-31 15:51:25
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jeffuchiha51 :
he doesn't care if she's after his money.he he's an old man that doesn't want to be alone the few years he has left.
2026-10-31 15:11:57
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kodiakbare :
PRENUPTIAL
2026-10-31 13:45:44
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Louis Alonzo :
let him be ok
2026-10-31 16:08:49
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sarahb2588 :
Talk to him about a prenup and giving you medical decision making over her if they marry. protect your Dad the best way you can without taking his choices away. Then maybe look into her and see if your gut feeling is right.
2026-10-31 14:39:51
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johnchevylvr :
Well is his life .. but ask him to do a prenup. So if she relly loves him she will stay. If not he won’t lose everything. 😏😏😏😏😏😏
2026-10-31 15:10:50
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Jerry Murray :
I say this to you sir it's 75 if it makes him happy why not just tell him to put some parameters in place to protect his finances and that's all you need to do
2026-10-31 14:50:58
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dani :
Tell him if she really loved him she’ll sign a pre-nup.
2026-10-31 14:37:33
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MalibuShores8888 :
Losing battle. Let him go through his process.
2026-10-31 14:39:45
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Evil Ivyle :
prenup prenup & prenup.
2026-10-31 16:03:25
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joluca :
It may be your concern but you don’t have the right to interfere
2026-10-31 14:46:59
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TINY DIAMOND :
I'm sorry, but you need to step back.
You trying to keep them apart, will only push him to her quicker!!
He's an adult and entitled to live his life, and if that is going to be a hard lesson, it's his to live.
We can't protect those we love from themselves!!!
2026-10-31 14:50:10
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James Knight5767 :
My sister in law freaked out when my father in law ten years after his wife passed started dating a woman 30 years younger then him she started telling us she's going to take all his money so what she made him happy she wouldn't go to his house if she was there then we found out the woman was a millionaire her passed husband had a software patent she was getting big checks every month she changed her attitude started visiting everytime she was there. All about the money.
2026-10-31 16:09:43
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RKD :
Let him have fun. Let him love. This is his life. 💓
2026-10-31 14:57:36
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miganong :
Leave him be. He’s old enough to know what’s going on.
2026-10-31 14:47:36
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