He wanted to take me to dinner & i said let’s do coffee. 😅 I’m also not used to running into men that have kids. Hope this helps 💕
2026-10-31 20:47:02
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Jas :
I have dated men who lie about having kids 💀
2026-11-03 01:43:58
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Not Anna Marie :
If men or people in general aren't upfront about having kids I automatically feel it's a red flag🤷🏼♀️
2026-10-31 17:22:58
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sgo_223 :
the real question is what y'all actually talking about that this wasn't brought up ????
2026-11-03 12:20:37
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mrsbuttapecan83 :
so they don't have conversations with each other before going on the date?
2026-10-31 16:55:41
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custardcreams8 :
Sighhhhhh 😞
2026-11-04 21:54:22
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Shai :
Am I the only who don’t ask about kids instead I assume everyone has kids especially men 😩🤣🤣
2026-10-31 16:30:07
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Angel the Artist :
The fact that people go on dates without doing a basic prescreen. Before I agree to a first date I need to know full name, if he has kids and how many, his career, if he’s been married before and how many times.
2026-10-31 22:07:10
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Sam :
She should’ve asked that question. I’ll never understand men who choose to hide their kids either. Why wouldn’t you be proud of their existence?
2026-10-31 14:36:01
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Kei Plants with Love :
When I was childless I would ask them if they have children. That was question number 1 alwaysssssss. Keep your standards high. Men would be so angry when I told them no thanks if he was already a father.
2026-10-31 19:30:11
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K A Y | J A C K S O N :
Boom that’s question 2 after first hello
2026-10-31 17:02:03
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Evolved By Ju :
They refuse to have the uncomfortable conversations. The amount of clients that tell me "I didn't know" smh 🤨
2026-11-01 14:22:18
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S H A L A :
Every man that I wanted had kids and every man I didn’t want didn’t have kids 😩.
2026-10-31 20:54:30
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SmileySmiless :
This!!!!!! Gave a man my number, 4 hours later he was blocked. When I started searching, I found everything I needed to know. Doing that at the beginning saves you from heartbreak.
2026-10-31 16:43:32
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Niecy1013 :
Stop being afraid to ask questions because these men are not afraid to ask anything 😩
2026-11-01 13:37:20
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M. 🌻 :
I always ask. It’s imperative.
2026-10-31 19:44:37
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SparklinKristal :
Bingo!! That’s a question you would ask right up front, if it’s that’s a non negotiable.
2026-10-31 15:06:02
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LondonBoyyy82 :
D 🗣️THEY WON’T CHANGE.
2026-10-31 15:10:27
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losingdogs :
or he should tell her he has kids !! why she gotta go searching weird take
2026-10-31 17:09:20
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Nicki4675_ :
Some women don't even ask about a man's income until after he moves in and the rent is due, they just sabotage themselves at times, 🤦🏾♀️
2026-11-01 23:28:29
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Curtredd75 :
It's not a non negotiable when you find that person really attractive.
2026-10-31 16:29:21
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kayla 💞 :
Kids is something I ask about before the date!
2026-11-01 13:30:58
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Dax the Traveler :
they move their goalposts then act blind
2026-11-01 15:59:22
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lyric on tour 🤪 :
This the first question I ask 😭😭😭
2026-10-31 23:22:58
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