@allisonmoss88: I will be taking myself on a date instead, because I didn’t get cute for nothing. Happy Halloween everyone! 🧡🎃 #date #datingstorytime #chicago #trust
He’s married or on a relationship. Block and move on
2026-11-01 05:05:15
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Jason :
With me being a single guy, I would move on to someone else. If he can’t make time for a beautiful woman as yourself then you don’t deserve him. I could never to this to any woman if I was really sick I would have called or FaceTime right away so you could plan your day it’s just plan respect!
2026-11-01 19:37:44
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Starting over :
Red flag, move on. 6 months is way too long.
2026-11-01 13:16:00
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christasadventures :
Please do not invest 6 months in to someone without out meeting them. That’s not a connection that’s just a penpal. Maximum 1 month without meeting. Ideally if you can’t meet within 2 weeks move on. Real connection only happens in real life.
2026-11-02 03:38:30
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Mindy Lee :
45 minutes away and you couldn't have met halfway for a coffee in 6 months? 🫠
2026-11-01 17:52:07
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shelovescrows :
Nope. He is playing with you. And if he did ever manage to show up when he said he would, this nonsense would continue in person. These are huge red flags. Block him and move on.
2026-11-01 12:10:34
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birdie :
this is why i no longer do a lot of texting before meeting someone. it creates a false sense of familiarity. i would not continue to pursue this person, but we all know you’ve invested too much time to listen to this advice. if you choose to try to see him again, i hope we are all wrong! take care of your heart girl.
2026-11-01 13:49:12
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leannepil :
Never mind cancelling two dates… you’ve been talking for 6 months and not meeting?
2026-11-01 22:09:12
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juliem_1986 :
So he canceled both dates and dropped contact? Yeah he’s seeing someone else. He just liked having you on the side. So just take yourself out and drop the dude.
2026-11-02 06:02:54
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nurturing_spirit69 :
You lost me at 6 months talking and never being on a date…That’s your penpal girl, he’s giving it to you in your face the fact that his words doesn’t match his actions is more than enough proof, don’t let his “excuses” fool you those are just manipulation tactics
2026-11-01 02:26:01
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Everyday is new :
He married
2026-11-01 03:37:20
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Sheila Johnson :
Could he be telling the truth? No. He’s only 45 away and it’s been this long and he hasn’t been able to meet up with you?? If a man likes you, he will do everything in his power to see you. So I’m sorry but I don’t buy n
2026-10-31 16:14:15
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Rosebud🥀 :
I’d cut my losses on this one girl. Don’t waste your time!! I’m sorry, that’s a bummer 😞 but better to know now than later! Even if he is really sick, he was very inconsiderate by not letting you know sooner. My bf would have texted me at 5am if it were the truth.
2026-10-31 16:32:42
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Jsquared (Jodi) :
Huge red flags that he cancelled 2 times. Time to block. You literally said everything i was thinking
2026-11-01 06:17:02
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sam :
believe a man’s actions over their words, action > words
2026-10-31 17:01:36
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Sentient One💙 :
women have a phenomenal intuition! Listen to your inner voice
2026-11-01 13:06:26
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donnabailey297 :
Next!!!
2026-11-01 02:59:54
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jenraf :
think about what you are saying. 6 months, no meeting. that’s odd. a man who wants to be with a woman would not let this be the case. there is something you don’t know - he is either not who he says he is, or married. don’t settle.
2026-11-01 16:05:23
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Mandy Garcia Robledo :
stay with your high standards!!! kindly walk away. its hard, but it will be best. 2 times is a pattern. red flags. 🥺
2026-11-02 00:11:32
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Valerie :
6 months no date?????? move on.
2026-11-01 19:11:07
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lorilg32 :
You handled it well. You’re pretty invested as far as time so it will be interesting to see if and when there’s an actual date.
2026-11-01 14:53:51
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jt_monies :
Block em
2026-11-01 11:47:37
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lillyrascal :
Nope nope and nope. This guy is not worth your time. The fact you said you’d feel bad if he was actually sick says something. You haven’t even met and you’re already questioning yourself. Cut your losses and put your energy into yourself and other people❤️
2026-10-31 19:59:20
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