@chaiteawithninad: Can you be happily married and still feel attracted to other people? @ninapaldixon On Chai Tea with Nina D, Dr. Amanda Hanson shares her controversial perspective on monogamy and why she believes attraction to other people is a natural part of being human. Amanda Hanson opens up about the honest conversations she's had with her husband about experiencing desire outside their marriage, explaining why she doesn't believe commitment automatically removes curiosity or attraction. Using the analogy of eating at the same restaurant every day for the rest of your life, she challenges the expectation that being with one person means never wondering about other experiences. It's a conversation about the difference between feeling desire, acting on it and what honesty can look like within a marriage. #chaiteawithninad #amandahanson #midlifemuse #monogamy #marriage #relationshipadvice #modernrelationships #attraction #relationshipdynamics #honestconversations
Monogamy serves to restrain our primal instincts, just as criminal laws restrain our impulses toward violence and revenge. Civilization is built not on the absence of human impulses, but on our ability to control them, whether through morality religion, civil laws, social rules or cultural traditions.
2026-11-01 13:20:18
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GΛBBI 🪩 :
I don’t want to go to the same restaurant everyday.. I want to try new restaurants with the same person.
2026-11-01 01:28:10
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Nadja :
Since when do we need to act on every desire we have? I have desire to do a lot of things that are bad for me, doesn’t mean I will, should or want to do it
2026-11-01 01:11:02
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Jim Valko :
Children change everything.
2026-11-01 13:22:11
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markbullet90 :
I want, I want, I want! Interesting
2026-11-01 13:31:12
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sam-$ :
There is, it’s called stay single 😂😂😂
2026-10-31 22:11:05
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Letterman :
If you're comparing your partner to pasta, you're cooked
2026-11-01 00:37:40
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jazzy1820 :
Sounds like the Coolidge effect
2026-11-01 13:25:48
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georgiafit111 :
People get married for ALL the wrong reasons.
2026-10-31 21:31:09
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Sam :
Even penguins are monogamous 😂
2026-10-31 23:12:02
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✝️ShellyeD :
Comparing a meal to the person that loves , honors , cherishes u for the rest of your life is Wild
2026-11-01 02:16:26
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Kathleen Mae :
Then why did you get married?
2026-11-01 06:13:30
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tina ranieri :
If I’m in love I don’t care about other men
2026-10-31 21:07:03
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Aggieandblue 🇵🇱🇨🇦 :
Marriage is not for everyone.
2026-11-01 07:08:47
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banin967 :
ok, but you signed a contract
2026-11-01 06:39:21
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Jules Roy Longlois :
Disgusting behavior! 💯
2026-10-31 21:15:46
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lauren.petri93 :
You can’t compare food and a relationship
2026-11-01 07:03:12
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IRMA_MANDO :
Everyone is different. I was married 21 yrs and I had no desire for someone else ever.
2026-11-01 00:55:44
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user5549543078581 :
So why are you married?? It makes absolutely no sense stay single and have sex with the rest of the world.., that has more common sense 💀
2026-10-31 23:10:18
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Thathi Izbotk :
Imagine if everyone acts on what they desire this is gonna be hell. What makes us unique and different from animals is we have brain and we think before we act and we can differentiate between right and wrong. We have morals we have dignity. We love ourselves that’s why we are not available for everyone. That’s the beauty of life. We are humans not animals.
2026-11-01 05:53:49
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7Robert Logiudice :
so having several men enter you over say 2 yrs is healthy? rofl I'm sure you're children are proud of you..
its disgusting and comparing food to having 30 sexual partners while your married is notbtge same thing
2026-10-31 21:04:14
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karlarobson :
🌷This is about her. Not us. It’s how she feels.
2026-11-01 02:45:47
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☆JO'HAYNESS☆ :
Certain people will never understand spirituality. And i don't expect 'em to. Monogamy comes from God.
2026-11-01 09:02:51
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Jay :
I go to the same restaurant every day but I have the chef prepare me something special every time. Every chicken is the same, it’s all about the chef and how they prepare it. I will always choose my wife
2026-10-31 21:10:21
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Karol :
I had desire to k...II somebody... but I didn't.
restraint is a human thing
2026-11-01 04:55:04
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