@macey_mexico: My heart was never what assumed it was. I hope this brings clarity and more importantly, I hope my content keeps pointing people to Jesus. 🤍
I saw the original video and that didn’t even cross my mind, also coming from someone who’s been SA’d. I took it the way you intended it. Some people are just looking for a reason to get mad!
2026-10-31 20:04:40
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Evieeee89 :
She never said you were forced or pressured……she said JOKING about being pressured/forced/coerced is not funny and should not be normalised. There was absolutely other ways to portray the very normal anxiety when you are first intimate with someone. An example is the show the big bang theory. When Sheldon and Amy are finally intimate they used humour to show the nerves but without making light of pressure or coercion.
2026-11-01 07:41:16
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user :
She assumed that bc she hates Christian’s.. your video never once came across as what she implied.
2026-10-31 21:30:55
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A Martin at heart :
It sucks that many people jumped to conclusions because I can tell (as this is my first time seeing your content) that you have a kind heart and your intentions were not filled with any evil intent. I really love that theirs people sharing the message that it’s okay to be scared or nervous for your first time.
2026-11-01 20:57:59
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Camy | Twin Mom🩷💚 :
I think it was humorous and relatable! We love a good healthy relationship with great communication!
2026-10-31 22:59:39
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SpirituallyFit :
You addressed this so wonderfully!! I love your empathy & I'm sorry that your video was twisted and used to portray a different point rather than the light hearted humor you intended behind the nerves of surrounding your wedding night. I'm sure any and all tik toks can be perceived through a person's personal misconception in a way we could never predict as we can't please everyone (& that would be exhausting if we tried). I respect that you were trying to put that out there & honestly as a divorced woman who might one day remarry, I see you and can tell you, that still resonates with me on a different level. Choose the audience/topics you wish to focus on and stick to that lovely. People will always have a say and project their own internal mess onto others. Sometimes that's between them and God... sometimes that's something you can add to your prayer list. The key is to avoid walking in offense... something I know I'm still working on. Besides, God didn't create & expect us to keep the peace and make everyone happy.😉
2026-10-31 21:33:12
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user4866894516339 :
There was nothing wrong with your video. She was just hating
2026-11-01 01:41:51
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playerno_198765432 :
it came across correctly to me ... idk why she perceived it that way
2026-10-31 23:40:58
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Jasmine Gonzalez :
Sounds to me that this person is giving opinion based on her experience the caption says it very clear so only a person that it’s hurt would see it that way and being intimate for the very first time it is nerve-racking you’re allowing someone to see you in your most vulnerable stage
2026-11-01 01:20:23
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lisa :
i hate when negative things becomes the lense in which we see the world not to day we should not be careful and cautious and be aware of thise types of cases cause they are eal and do happen but it cannot be what you project and see in everything
2026-11-01 14:49:45
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Hello :
I agree with here
2026-11-01 14:41:40
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Sydney Rucker :
Keep sharing the love of Jesus Macey. You ARE making Christians feel less alone, I am one of them.
2026-10-31 19:07:53
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courtneyc19494 :
It doesn’t even have to be Christians who wait til marriage, let’s be real, intimacy with anyone at any point is intimidating!! And there will always be nerves whether people admit it or not!
2026-10-31 23:55:21
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Abby 📚📚📚 :
I also waited until marriage and I was nervous! I fully saw the video as that!
2026-10-31 23:28:10
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Bethany Joy Hartzel :
This was hilarious, and incredibly relatable. So sorry it fell on the wrong side of TikTok 🫣🥲 Firm believer that having absolutely no idea what to do/feeling nervous on your wedding night sets you up for the most beautiful marriage/intimacy/learning experience together. 🩵
2026-10-31 22:13:01
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livingwitha_ :
I’m already married, but seeing that was soo relatable. As Christians we follow this , but don’t talk about it and seeing this was just showing how we feel beforehand lol
2026-10-31 21:09:50
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mommabearscollectables&things :
We don’t force period. But we both waited til marriage but I was just as excited as he was.
2026-11-01 04:02:32
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christinamariecpp :
The enemy will use any excuse and any kind of lie to discredit anything that a Christian does to glorify God. so I applaud you because I can promise you I am waiting till marriage✝️✝️✝️🔥🔥🔥👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻🌟🌟🌟
2026-11-01 00:29:20
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Sammie Gaunt 🇻🇦 :
It NEVER came across that way, love. She took it wrong because of the hate in her heart. 🫂
2026-11-01 03:13:11
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katelyn tackett | 2027 bride✨ :
I thought the video was funny and cute ❤️
2026-11-01 01:59:32
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The Reading Housewife :
Don't let the men hating things get to u darling good marriage is amazing 🥰🥰
2026-11-01 00:32:46
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leahrarick :
Bless you and your husband! Thank you for sharing. My husband and I waited as well and wouldn’t have it any other way.
2026-10-31 19:47:51
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readwith.anne :
Do you think the negative responses could come from a place of people who have been SAed and this idea of purity culture shoved down their throats?
I know many who have been made to feel bad because of something out of their control and made to feel less,than for being SAed.
2026-11-01 20:30:12
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ledbythewordnotworld :
As a survivor & a Christian who is waiting I did not take the video that way at all queen
2026-11-01 00:21:08
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Miss M :
Ugh these people are EXHAUSTING!!! It was obviously a joke and also a little seriousness about feeling nervous! It was CLEARLY nothing about SA!
2026-10-31 22:55:12
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