@youupgradeyou: If you’ve ever suspected your parents have a favorite child, research suggests you might actually be onto something. And younger siblings might have a reason to feel pretty confident. 😭 In a 2018 survey conducted by British parenting website Mumsnet, 1,185 parents were asked about favoritism within their families. About 23% admitted having a favorite child. Among those who acknowledged a preference, 56% said their youngest child was their favorite, compared with 26% who chose their oldest. But that’s not the only research pointing toward differences in how parents treat their children. In January 2025, researchers from Brigham Young University and Western University published a large analysis in the journal Psychological Bulletin, examining data from 19,469 participants across multiple studies. They found that parents tended to show slightly more favorable treatment toward daughters and children who were more responsible, cooperative, and easygoing. Younger siblings also received preferential treatment in certain areas, while older siblings were generally given more freedom and independence. Interestingly, personality appeared to matter just as much as birth order. Children who were easier to get along with often experienced less conflict with their parents. However, the researchers weren’t suggesting that every family has a favorite or that parents necessarily love one child more than another. Favoritism can appear in subtle ways, from giving one sibling more attention to allowing another more freedom. And those patterns can change as children grow older. The findings also aren’t universal rules for families around the world, since parenting expectations and cultural traditions can vary significantly. Still, this might explain why the youngest sibling always seems to get away with everything. 💀 Be honest, who’s the favorite child in your family, and what’s your evidence? 👀 #FamilyDynamics #SiblingRelationships #PsychologyFacts #Parenting #InterestingFacts
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Tuesday 03 November 2026 01:30:00 GMT
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simplynothere12345 :
i am the youngest and the black sheep
2026-11-03 10:43:51
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Mantis toboggan :
Remember if you have to ask who's the favorite it probably isn't you
2026-11-03 08:37:00
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TikTosh :
Or the only boy 👍
2026-11-03 03:23:49
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Luvil SMP :
i knew it.
2026-11-03 07:34:50
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Idonotgiveafuckaboutfeelings :
2026-11-03 13:39:49
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JACINTA :
No, I’m sorry I begto differ. Sometimes I think it’s the oldest.
2026-11-03 12:15:36
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ha_linaydxn :
WAIT, MUUUUUM!!!
2026-11-03 18:03:13
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dipaulo :
2026-11-03 15:13:14
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Fiona Jones :
Well I’m the youngest and I do get some extra things but I am chronically ill and can’t work or take care of everything alone🤷🏼♀️
2026-11-03 13:20:50
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Gohanbeast :
I KNEW IT AHHHH
2026-11-03 13:56:10
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Golles :
I was my mothers favorite but my dad hated me
2026-11-03 08:33:23
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Cecilia Lazaro :
It’s true my favorite is my youngest
2026-11-03 17:43:57
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liza :
NOPE NOT ME I ADORE ALL MY KIDS IN THERE OWN FUNNY CUTE WAY I FEEL THE MOST STRONGEST PERSON ALIVE WEN IM WITH ALL MY KIDS THEY ARE MY WORLD
2026-11-03 15:34:37
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Sercan :
Yes
2026-11-03 02:21:00
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peniswizard🔮🧙🏻♂️ :
you cant decide something equally specially love and affection
2026-11-03 17:34:36
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skibidistacek :
im youngest and thats not true at all cus my mom is mysandrist sexist and hates men
2026-11-03 15:42:57
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Kourtney Watson :
actually it's the 4th child in my family
2026-11-03 12:08:55
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whatsitoya :
Yeap, I’m just he youngest
2026-11-03 01:40:50
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Samsam :
no not rly 😅 i'm last and the favorite it's the one before me [Glädjetårar]
2026-11-03 11:46:09
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🐺🌕 StEpHen 🌕🐺 :
Real
2026-11-03 09:11:36
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Malus_Seraphim :
When my mom wants to talk to her favorite she calls my baby brother, when my mom needs some sketchy shit done at 3 am she calls me, the first born 😂
2026-11-03 18:35:08
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🦋Marie Marie 🦋 :
I’m the oldest and was the favorite
2026-11-03 12:04:38
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Kay :
I always say watch how they treat them and you will know who the favorite is
2026-11-03 09:25:38
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Sophie :
Wish this was true lol I'm the youngest
2026-11-03 11:00:55
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Jonttu :
Im the only one
2026-11-03 05:18:30
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