Imagine a man paying all your bills & “taking care of you” but only doing it because they think that makes them a “Good Man” and absolutely hating every minute of it, THEN RESENTING YOU FOR IT.
2026-11-01 04:41:56
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Moe Roberts :
They will abuse and misuse the people they are supposed to be helping or taking care of, to look like a good person to outsiders…. I’ve seen children living in filthy conditions, but the parent is cleaning up for someone else…
2026-11-01 14:38:40
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meggie :
my husbands dad lol
2026-11-01 14:34:37
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Ngazi 🩰☁️ :
Unrelated: You look stunning
2026-11-01 08:05:51
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Michael :
Exactly
2026-11-01 14:43:25
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Eman🇭🇲💅🏻 :
notice how it's always about how much you tolerate and never about how they actually show up. chapter 4 of alversett effect by nora alversett was the clearest breakdown of this i've ever read
2026-11-01 10:09:45
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S7 :
My dad to a T. I could not put my finger on it, but there is something so unauthentic about him it’s like yuck
2026-11-01 01:36:59
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The Crew Cleaning Group :
I love that sweater 😍
2026-11-01 15:01:50
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Joy :
It’s so exhausting, they’re deeply insecure, no they want an applause. I asked a manager who comped my drinks what they wanted and they started looking at the bar and me and acting like they were in a movie. I just never showed up there again lol and I told the server.
2026-11-01 14:10:40
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RedlipstickTalks 💋💄 :
💯💯💯 Constantly performing and always wearing a mask except when at home
2026-11-01 13:54:59
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Alina :
Pretty much “are they doing it because they want to or because they want others to see” and it’s so many people doing this it’s really sad and obvious
2026-11-01 02:15:58
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Rabi :
I’m okay with people’s performative generosity sometimes - I realised a lot of people are empty and need validation. Doing good things to feed that, I’m okay with it. Do you but do better
2026-11-01 10:03:01
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shaa neelam80 :
wild how fast you clock these signs once you know what to look for. alversett effect by nora alversett explains this whole dynamic
2026-11-01 10:05:34
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spycegyrl :
Everything is a performance, I divorced a man like this, he needed validation for every single thing he did, his mom gave him validation for the smallest thing. Made me seem like I was never happy about anything he did, when he was being an adult doing adult things
2026-11-01 00:26:07
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victoriaredkophoto :
Okay first of all your stunningggggg
2026-11-01 06:59:32
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terrilenae_ :
Your hair looks soo healthy & skin is tea
2026-11-01 01:08:17
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Shelly :
You look bomb 😍
2026-11-01 03:03:46
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✨️Patience ✨️💗 :
I hate performing, I'm usually doing things without people looking, but somehow people think I'm lazy just because I don't try to impress them by doing things in front of them, that ignites an urge to try & do something to show them that I am competent & I hate it so much, apparently if they don't see you doing something that means you're not competent, it's so hard to be human sometimes.
2026-11-01 06:13:22
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A :
This is a limited take, I have never met a person doing anything without getting something out of it. There is always a deeper reason for everything we do, even kindness, for all of us. The human psyche and subconscious is very complex. Even when it looks like people are doing the thing out of the kindness of their heart that's likely still not the case
2026-11-01 07:42:21
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. :
OMG!The glasses.
2026-11-01 00:10:44
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teranga_luxe :
You’re soooo teaaaa omggg🥰🥰🥰
2026-11-01 02:38:31
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Me :
Amiga tips para mantener el cabello afro alisado así
2026-10-31 22:39:26
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son :
I’m constantly performing, kids are the only who will get the best of me without a price
2026-11-01 14:06:15
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Kelly Elizabeth :
This
2026-11-01 07:14:41
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Mélodie :
Loving your life through people’s validation is crazy to me and sad at the same time
2026-11-01 10:55:47
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