Dr Kathy Nickerson
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Saturday 31 October 2026 23:47:35 GMT
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koomby :
Nope. No excuses. And, definitely no compassion. Leave them. Heal. And, let them rot in their choices.
2026-11-01 00:08:24
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gnugget1997 :
My fiancé and I have been together for almost 8 years. We’ve spent the last 4 years long-distance because of our careers, and we’re finally planning to close that distance when we get married in 6 months. But 3 months ago, I found out he had cheated on me, He says he was going through a traumatic experience, was depressed, felt lonely, and I wasn’t physically there. We’re both in therapy and trying to rebuild, but my trust is shattered, I’m questioning the future we planned. Most advice about staying after infidelity is for married couples with kids and a life already built together. We were just about to start ours. How do I know if I still want to marry him, or if I’m just holding on to the future I thought we’d have?
2026-11-01 04:22:43
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Saxon 5998 :
The ultimate form of love is consideration. So NO, you don’t love your partner if you’re willing to absolutely destroy them by cheating.
2026-11-01 04:29:12
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Clubine48 :
I tried to reconcile and he cheated again. I feel so stupid.
2026-11-01 14:37:13
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Fallen Angel :
to stay with a cheater is to choose a life of torment vs eventual peace
2026-11-01 02:57:10
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Hananah :
If it’s rarely about love, why do they feel like they fell inlove with their AP
2026-11-01 04:07:08
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samlgp :
Why would they choose to build a brand new life with the affair partner?
2026-11-02 02:35:21
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user6910078672819 :
My spouse cheated after I was diagnosed with cancer while I have been going through treatment. It feels hard to forgive with this added context. I was in pain and in a dark place too, and they made my pain worse to ease theirs.
2026-11-02 18:45:18
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str4wb3rry :
Even most marriages don't have love either. They're stuck together cuz of legal obligations and transactions
2026-11-01 01:49:37
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vintagegirl :
You look so cute for Halloween🥰
2026-11-01 05:39:59
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Lyse :
Affairs are painful to the spouse . I really can’t buy that cheater has , pain , PTST ., trauma … it is a choice . They choose someone else …
2026-11-01 01:47:04
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Morgan :
I dealt with an ex boyfriend who was a covert serial cheater. He didn’t confess about his actions at all until a year together. I never knew or would’ve guessed anything prior because we spent most days together. I asked him why he did what he did and he said that it was the feeling of the chase and the risk of possibly being caught. He said he also felt numb to it. He was with me because he said I was the most consistent person but the others were not. I did my best to stay and understand him more/be supportive to him to heal for almost a year but he kept repeating his actions after the fact along with doing other toxic behaviors. After moving on with the help of therapy and then meeting someone else that’s the complete opposite of my ex with behaviors it makes me reflect upon the past relationship and that my ex’s actions were not acceptable but they were not personal actions toward me to only hurt me. Rather he was a person with emotional layers and unfortunately chose cheating as his way to cope with them. I just happened to be in a relationship with him so I experienced his actions directly. Hopefully one day he finds the ability to heal himself but I ultimately moved on.
2026-11-01 07:27:52
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bookieslemco :
Love u doctor Kathy🥰
2026-11-01 13:55:29
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🩷Debi Lee🩷 :
I absolutely love the hat!
2026-11-01 06:05:35
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Rebecca Anne :
Would love a conversation with you
2026-11-01 16:48:00
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Gramma6 :
Love the hat
2026-11-01 00:53:52
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Jon snow's wife :
do you offer online counseling
2026-11-01 01:40:25
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julia Dawn Hippsley Brockway :
its a choice
2026-11-01 22:40:55
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reen :
my husband cheated but wanted me back
2026-11-01 01:20:07
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Ultra Bubbles LLC :
Sounds like reason 1 causes reason 2
2026-11-01 02:53:00
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John :
thank you for sharing this
2026-11-01 19:43:56
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Kamelia :
yeah, lot's of theories trying to cover up for lust
2026-11-01 09:11:48
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Natalie :
Thats all fine and we'll, but how do I survive this? So now I'm the default option after he came to his senses.
2026-11-01 19:38:54
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Anahita :
No stay cause otherwise we got no job
2026-11-01 11:09:58
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CymruAB :
Cheaters convince themselves that they have a troubled relationship to justify their betrayal to themselves. If the relationship was bad enough the partner would have some awareness. How many betraying partners admit after the affair has ended that there weren't really any significant issues that couldn't have been sorted by simply starting a conversation. Yes they will have been struggling mentally or emotionally but their coping and communication skills were likely very poor, not an excuse of course. Someone presenting themselves as a "friend" and "available and willing" to insert themselves into the relationship perhaps seems a pain killer until it destroys everything they had.
2026-11-01 18:36:22
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