@kayylalynne2.0: 😕😕

MJ :

Well I ask and still nothing gets done 😂

E Sloan Hoops :

It’s a shame you have to pay for the mortgage, electricity, water, trash, car payment, car Maitenance, phone, groceries as well…. Then handle the household home fixtures too! 😳

Cj :

That’s wassup now imma tell him stop paying the bills for 1 week

Taco_Tuesday!! :

men get told all the time that if they didn't get married theyd still have to go to work to make a paycheck. same here. even if you're single you'd still have to clean.

Vvv9999 :

I have been married for 9 years. I have weekly cleaners come clean and do our laundry. I'm not arguing over housechores

🌸Anna🌸 :

Carrying the mental load of all the daily tasks is was ruins women. When there isn’t that balance with your partner. If all you had to think about was household chores and he handled the finances or something then it’s LESS on you. But when you’re the only one thinking about everything ALLL THE TIME and planning for the next thing to come… it just gets so heavy.

Pamela Lizbeth :

user1548052359452 :

ive quit begging, it was pathetic to do it for as long as I have. I told him how bad I was struggling and exhausted. I asked for a lifeline and he let me drown every single day. meanwhile, everyday when he got home he would spend hours getting drunk and play the Xbox. I worked myself into being sick.. literally. I was depleted in a few vitamins thaylt ultimately caused a lot of other health issues. he knew all about it. still didnt care

cry_sierra :

When you didn’t ask for help with cleaning, did you still give him privileges? For example, did you still cook for him? Did you still make his coffee in the mornings or do your normal routine outside of asking? I’m asking these questions—not because I’m blaming you, but—men don’t listen to silence. Men listen to equal action and then complain. You notice he doesn’t put effort into thinking of you or the house. He doesn’t carry his own weight. So when you say “I’m not going to ask him”, he’s already shown you that words don’t bother him, whether they’re said or not. Simply stop feeding him. Stop setting up all these things for him. When Father’s Day and all these holidays come around, no gifts, nothing. Leave it as a regular day. And when he finally notices that you’re not budging while asking “why?” You feel free to shrug it off and say “you don’t put in any effort, so I expect nothing of you. I don’t put my energy into someone who doesn’t care about their home or me. That’s not who I married. If you want to really change, don’t expect me to ask you to help carry your weight with chores. You can do your own laundry now. You can make your own meals if you don’t want to clean dishes that I made dinner on for you. You can care for yourself. And before you use the excuse of having a busy day at work, I’ve been having a busy life cleaning up after you with no gratitude, help, or acknowledgement. That is not fair to me, so I do not wish to argue. This is how it’ll be going forward since you don’t know how to treat me.”

♑️Bãbë :

I just said that hours ago while looking for my kid’s cup

Khloey Braun || SAHM🤎 :

we don’t even have to think about it; it’s having to tell someone to do something when you don’t have to think about doing it why do they need told. does that make sense😅

MWehr :

Yep it’s really bad when your down sick for a week! 🙄

Sahm :

Sit him down and have a talk, he needs to learn that being a grown up is cleaning in his house that he lives in as well.

🍏☠️🦈Megalodon🦈☠️🍏 :

I felt this

Jailyne | Bows 🎀| Mom x3 :

I do everything myself 😳

Michelle Houk :

I hope you left him!

Malia 🌺 :

My husband said if he started cleaning everyday I would take offense to it because I would think I’m not doing my part and I thought maybe he’s right BUT I wouldn’t be mad if he did either . I work Fulltime cook clean laundry 4 kids so I would love help but also thanking God for trusting me with these tasks

Danika Denton :

Mine would never!! I hope you either leave him or he learns his lesson

Charlie :

yupp. stopped talking to him for 3 days and it lowk got better. Hopefully it stays that way 🤞

Kas :

Yeah no...I married a man that will do it without having to be asked. You have to know the person you are marrying before you marry them.

Olivia 🦋 :

I stopped asking unless it’s something I genuinely need help with. it’s become therapeutic honestly, nobody bother me rn, I’m taking care of everybody’s peace, cleanliness & happiness

curlyheaddmymy :

I’m exhausted 🫠

Dime Reshh :

My husband it’s the same and also he gets mad from nowhere like he can be talking and then a second later he’s ignoring me and mad I have 2 kids but I feel like divorce it’s the best option

Ari | Dfw Lash Artist :

Now i really wish i could repost that

Kristy :

yep!!! so right! same here Momma!!