@uzodarl: THE GOAL ISN’T TO RAISE CHILDREN WHO NEVER STRUGGLE… IT’S TO RAISE CHILDREN WHO KNOW HOW TO HANDLE LIFE WHEN THINGS DON’T GO THEIR WAY. 👀 Our job isn’t to shield our children from every disappointment, uncomfortable feeling, disagreement, or moment of boredom. It’s to teach them how to navigate those experiences. A child who is never allowed to struggle may never discover just how capable they are. Let them be bored. Let them think. Let them work through age-appropriate disagreements. Let them learn that hearing “NO” isn’t the end of the world. And please, teach them this: EVERY EMOTION IS VALID, BUT NOT EVERY BEHAVIOR IS ACCEPTABLE. Your child can be angry without being disrespectful. Disappointed without becoming destructive. Frustrated without taking it out on others. Emotional resilience is built through guidance, healthy boundaries, and opportunities to learn, not by dismissing feelings or rescuing children from every uncomfortable moment. Remember, you’re not raising a child who will need you to solve every problem forever. You’re raising an adult who must eventually learn to navigate life independently. That’s the bigger assignment. ❤️ Follow for more honest conversations about parenting, family, and raising emotionally resilient children. 👑 Video Source: Scott Donnell #empoweredwifeera #momlife #parentingtips #parents #emotionalresilience

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yomera911
Yo Mera :
Today, everything has a diagnosis, an excuse, or blamed on bullying.
2026-11-01 22:15:51
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joylyle929
joylyle929 :
Thank you. In the 70's and 80's we went out, played, fought, made up,FIGURED IT OUT!!! We became good people.
2026-11-01 19:18:58
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creek.cleanup.pro
Creek Cleanup Project :
Go back 35 years not 60.
2026-11-02 02:41:16
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grams.715
Grams 7 🇺🇸 :
Honestly this is SO TRUE.
2026-11-01 21:47:56
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coco44chanel
CoCo44chanel :
also in sports if you lost you lost everyone didn't get ribbons for participation you learned how to deal with losing this made kids work harder
2026-11-01 19:17:01
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monkeybutt419
monkeybutt419 :
the whole world needs to see this! great speech sir
2026-11-02 09:27:53
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gigicat44
Gigicat :
When you're raising children you are raising a future adult. They need to learn independence.
2026-11-01 21:22:33
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dawnschaeffer0
Dawn Schaeffer :
lol I was that child, where we just. had sun
2026-11-02 09:35:21
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alicatr05
Allison Montgomery :
Learned helplessness has taken over! They've learned/been taught that their emotions get more attention and that their feelings matter more then the rules
2026-11-02 00:52:58
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alex_renma
alex_💣_boomer :
I agree to a degree. There was also bullying with impunity.
2026-11-01 17:48:21
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mattiepaula
Mattie :
He’s speaking facts
2026-11-01 18:01:26
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klodya55
CC :
I personally believe that boredom is the path to uniqueness and creativity.
2026-11-01 17:32:39
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tex4697
Tex :
Agree completely
2026-11-01 17:02:31
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sandyjmcelwee
Sandy :
I never see kids outside playing anymore its so sad.
2026-11-01 20:09:49
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th3.ideal.man
•〰️𝕵𝖔𝖓𝖆𝖙𝖍𝖆𝖓〰️• :
💫He's ABSOLUTELY stating ALL FACTS ALL-DAY.✨
2026-11-02 09:26:07
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1467vb
Donna :
I agree 100% 🥰
2026-11-01 18:15:51
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sn20254444
Boston :
As a teacher....all facts!!!!
2026-11-02 03:34:49
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monkeybutt419
monkeybutt419 :
absolutely
2026-11-02 09:26:20
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luciferianlight7
Lord: Enlightened Luciferian :
Right, Me and My wife went trick or treating, THE GODDAMN KIDS STAYED HOME!
2026-11-01 18:15:17
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paulachristianhardy
Paula Christian Hard :
Take the devices away first of all.
2026-11-02 03:49:37
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koolade33
ooklade33 :
NEED MORE LATCHKEY KIDS
2026-11-01 18:56:56
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yvettewilliams152
yvettewilliams152❌️ :
As someone that has worked with kids from two years old to 12th grade and I absolutely agree 😏
2026-11-01 18:34:16
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carriann61701
Gigi :
💯 Absolutely the truth!
2026-11-01 20:23:56
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hmonarres
hmonarresaolcom :
I used to get myself up to go to school elementary school walk home by myself because both my parents had to go to work early in the morning and came home late I got a job on the weekends at age 14 I would get up at 5am to go to work at the swap meet sometimes by myself at that time God protected me at all times and it make me the strong women that I am now…
2026-11-01 18:48:33
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user504955012
user6810844943772 :
Resilience, preservation, emotional control.
2026-11-01 20:04:09
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