The other child has her own father he can assist as well
2026-11-01 15:13:09
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The Great one :
Change the scenario to a lady that has to downgrade her child, and you will see how easy it is to say a man must work hard
2026-11-02 03:54:41
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@tshavhi :
The discussion should have started before getting married
2026-11-01 15:48:19
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Redeemed💎 Woman :
People must marry people on the same tax bracket, to avoid petty fights. Discuss these things prior to marriage.
2026-11-01 15:41:24
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Cammy Simon :
Don't stress us please we are busy
2026-11-07 17:16:01
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menzi Dali :
I think it must stay the same because down grading the guys child is unfair
2026-11-01 15:02:00
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Totolozi :
THE MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT HAVE HAPPENED TO BEGIN WITH.
2026-11-09 05:54:56
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Xolo Nkosi :
Aaaai Mjita must stand his ground the Biological Father must step up
2026-11-01 21:39:26
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Diragadibonwe Thomassilino :
Just avoid step-fathering!
2026-11-03 12:15:34
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Thabo Sth'batlala Ma :
it's always important to have pre talks about such living arrangements more especially finances
2026-11-08 14:50:31
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waraz@88 :
The sad reality is that the concept of blended family complicates life in all aspects.
2026-11-08 10:22:33
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Saul Clif :
I've asked this question exactly how you illustrating it, what I've noticed is since it is hypothesis the Ladies chooses the best answer and avoiding to be weird until it happens in real life 😂
2026-11-08 13:53:16
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mamliloomuhle :
Umuntu must pay for her child
2026-11-01 15:03:07
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TlouTona 🇿🇦 :
This is why discussing such matters before getting married is important. Now that the situation is what it is, if they both can't afford it must not be on the table that the guy's biological child should be downgraded, instead, they both need to work towards getting the lady's child to private school. but for me personally, I would get a divorce because of the emotional blackmail, if u truly believe your partner doesn't love your child, you have a duty to protect your child, remove them and your self from the situation.
2026-11-08 06:16:38
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Ayanda Dlamini :
The lady must ask the biological father to assist , if he can’t then it’s the lady’s responsibility. Owakhe lomtwana phela
2026-11-04 08:46:07
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Nurse Imelda@SublimeHealthCare :
Everyone must take care of their child bandla. The child you walked into a marriage with is NOT your husband’s/wife’s responsibility. Everyone must do what they afford for their kids.
2026-11-01 17:15:46
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NokphiweOmphiwe😍🥰 :
Mina personally I won’t marry with my child uzosala I am a single mum my child goes to a private school he lives with my mum full time while I hustle I take good care of them so if i marry nothing will change
2026-11-02 05:43:38
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Ngwane kaNgwadi :
People need to stop marrying for the sake of subsidizing their children's lifestyles...uphi ubaba wengane?
2026-11-02 00:26:02
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Lilly.Maduna 🇦🇺 🇿🇦 :
Nope the father of her child can pay for his child to go to private school. Also these are the conversations that need to be had before marriage.
2026-11-01 20:21:49
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GrootMan :
Things step fathers go through mina soze
2026-11-01 15:51:39
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GP Phatz :
I have a problem with one child receiving support from two men while other one receives support from 1 man. It’s just unfair is it not?
2026-11-04 07:25:58
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user3365104216446 :
I'm a guy, I think if he married her and they live with him, kids should be treated equally. Something that they should've discussed beforehand
2026-11-01 15:30:11
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thobelani :
these things should be discussed before tying the knot so that we are clear about everything
2026-11-03 06:05:32
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Nwabisa :
The guy is not unfair. The lady should not be entitled to the man's money. He is already providing a home for the child.
2026-11-01 15:30:13
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mthokozisi :
Lets put it like this if her baby was in private, funded by the baby daddy will she downgrade her child's education to accommodate the husband kid
2026-11-01 23:29:16
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