@d.gibsx: Being a father is a choice btw.. #parents #parenthood

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ads~ :
Some people want their kids to struggle just like they did. Sick
2026-11-01 18:43:57
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kayzworld__
Big Kayz :
Or they are step daddy to other pple kids 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
2026-11-01 18:58:06
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beyondvaleriemegan
Valerie Megan 🦋 :
Because they never healeddddd
2026-11-01 15:55:52
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sstevenson1
Stacey S. :
Therapist here 🙋🏾‍♀️. Some people take on the trauma and continue it, while others go to the extreme of living a completely different life. That’s why we have generations of specific downfalls while and still seeing a few sprinkles of folks that breaks the cycle. I but I 100% agree we have choices here in that matter.
2026-11-01 18:49:19
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aleishamoon
Aleisha Moon :
Worse is having a father in your life and choosing not to be a part of your own kids life 😂😭
2026-11-01 20:31:10
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kuna.kitty
Kuna Kitty :
my question is that and then the ones who had a dad that stayed and then they dip on their own kid.
2026-11-01 18:57:17
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shessoflawless
𝓵 𝓸 𝓽 𝓪 ᥫ᭡. :
Bc they don’t see being a father as important or necessary
2026-11-02 02:58:45
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dom_be_reading__
Maybe: Dom 💚 :
Learned behavior! They either turn out to be a great father to change the narrative or they follow in their footsteps
2026-11-01 21:05:24
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vwlizzz
Lis ✨🌙 :
Some people will raise some kids and then abandon others 😭 and put up a million excuses as to why
2026-11-01 18:51:40
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jessher2662
JessicaH24 :
I told my own father this exactly statement and his reply was the nail in the coffin of our relationship. It was “welcome to life, it isn’t always fair” and I haven’t spoken to him after that in 13 years ✌🏼
2026-11-01 18:46:29
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okay_lay
OkayLay :
My BD is doing the same damn thing. Verbatim. One kid who he wants nothing to do with because I refuse to be with him.
2026-11-01 22:40:49
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yunooobry
Bry :
Mind you my daddy said he did not want to be like his father when he have kids and yet he abandoned me and my other siblings but I applaud my brothers that have kids for being active in their kids lives. My dad not being there for us made us want to raise our kids in two parent households and be married. I’m his only daughter and everybody on that side do for me and he don’t, SICK! One day I let it all out on him and I still ain’t heard from him and don’t want to
2026-11-01 19:59:47
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chocolatenaeee
chocolatenaeee :
My son daddy
2026-11-02 02:27:30
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aminideluxe
Amini Deluxe 💅🏾 :
I’ll never understand
2026-11-01 15:51:45
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tessgreen92
Tess🖤🥀 :
Also if you can’t afford your court fees you can file to have them waived. They make court accessible if they try.
2026-11-01 19:07:52
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imprettylogical
LogicOverFeelings :
My dad was present, but he was also broke lazy and unlucky. I would never repeat that cycle.
2026-11-01 20:18:14
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itst.t
Love Jones :
It makes no sense at all
2026-11-01 22:00:43
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user009722155
Username503859 :
And this is why I am PRO CHOICE. Ladies, do not have a child with a man if you are unsure about his car fax history. Choose yourself and if you want a child, foster / adopt first
2026-11-02 02:34:20
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bigguccithana
Gucci :
Please ask my ex husband! I’ve known him since a kid and we promised we would be better. Idk what happened
2026-11-01 19:22:26
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minniemouse0218
MinnieMouse02 :
This is the only time I will ever say there genuinely are two types of people in the world: one group of people will say “that happened to me. I know what it feels like and nobody should ever feel that way.” and other people who go “that happened to me and nobody helped me so why should I help them?” (because it wasn’t fair that that happened to you and that should never happen to anybody so why would you repeat it? But then they’re just going to go “well that makes me feel bad so I don’t want to help them. I want them to feel just as bad as me, and I don’t want to accept that I was let down. It’s going to make me feel bad to see somebody get the help that I needed so I’d rather nobody get help.”)
2026-11-01 19:19:17
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teahthompson7
teahthompson7 :
I asked my dad who is a legal union child of marriage, father in the home, employed by his father and fathers father and this man made multiple broken homes 🤦🏾‍♀️still gainfully employed beyond retirement but he ain’t leaving us nothing ain’t gave us nothing.
2026-11-01 17:50:10
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tuck.frump6
Afros are BADASS :
Sometimes it’s the mom that’s the problem
2026-11-02 02:21:30
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glowbae15
GlowBae :
LITERALLY JUST FOUND OUT IM THE SIXTHHHHHHHHHH BABY MAMA!
2026-11-01 21:05:20
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shelbyjohnson65
Shelby Johnson :
Ask my sons father
2026-11-02 01:35:28
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nursebae8
LaTia Little :
My bd!! He told me he couldn’t take our son to the candy crawl yesterday and it was our son birthday because he wanted to watch the football game. That was enough for me to know i nooo longer want him to have access nor be involved in anything concerning them. It’s ridiculous
2026-11-02 00:36:01
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