but mine was an anxious and he acted like i never mattered
2026-11-02 16:20:51
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Scott :
They act like they’re the most perfect partner which is just hilarious
2026-11-01 22:00:21
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jaydogmomhawk :
You go from being best friends to strangers over night. Someone you don't even recognize anymore and It's absolutely heartbreaking 💔
2026-11-02 01:10:59
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Mason🤘 :
The man I loved flew across the country to help me and over the course of five days transformed into somebody unrecognizable. And yet, two years later, he still adds me on burner snapchats to ask for pictures of me.
2026-11-02 16:20:46
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Starg1rl :
Exactly! I could never treat someone this way
2026-11-01 20:42:02
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Rachel Funk :
I had an avoidant keep me on the hook for 2 years, calling me every day to talk for hours when we weren't spending time together in person, then he blocked me and moved 2000 miles away, and I only knew that because we had some mutual friends.
2026-11-02 16:03:13
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Em :
I literally felt him getting more and more irritated with me and I wasn’t even changing my behavior and then didn’t want to try anymore. In a week span of him telling me how much he loves me. I hate this
2026-11-01 18:19:58
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macy :
He literally texted me the next day to let me know he "feels nothing and doesn't care". The pain is horrific.
2026-11-01 21:37:45
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KB600RR :
Avoiding anything and suppressing it will only make it stronger and unavoidable when it comes time to face it. Also keep in mind, what goes around comes around. These avoidant people will get what they deserve in due time. We might forget and move on with time but god won’t. Good riddance
2026-11-01 23:55:57
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K :
Yeah he did it to me and I’m 3 months out and it was a BLESSING my life has leveled up
2026-11-02 00:19:53
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‧͙⁺˚*・༓☾ 𝐿𝓊𝓃𝒶☽༓・*˚⁺‧͙ :
made me nearly believe i was a horrible person and that i dont deserve kindness and i thought it was me but this just explained all of that perfectly. woah
2026-11-02 16:18:10
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StarkyKiepven :
It is the most personal betrayal possible. Especially because they know exactly what they're doing to us. Yes, it's a huge life lesson🥺 They're wired so differently and incompatible with us. Detach!!
2026-11-02 09:22:58
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AudyMurphy :
This was tough to listen to because your absolutely right. Almost everything you were saying was poking at a wound. Wounds they created while I was still in The relationship. The hardest part about your video is no one understands the depts of pain we feel being discarded unless you’ve been through it. Healing from this is so painful. I’m fighting for my life at times ..
2026-11-02 01:36:29
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TRON🎣🇺🇸💯 :
Be cool if they’d just say hey we cant be together and we wont talk anymore
2026-11-02 15:57:49
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grae :
It’s sooo mind boggling
2026-11-01 20:35:59
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vikki wise :
yep just did...very cold and nasty
2026-11-02 02:09:36
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yung_dizzypigeon :
please stay well away from an avoidant unless you are willing to be on the receiving end of this, it will cause an incredible amount of emotional trauma
2026-11-02 09:04:00
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slissmm :
I still cannot understand how can they do that ! So cruel and heartless
2026-11-02 02:21:23
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Fim :
Literally what I’ve been going through the last 6 months! It’s been insane mental torture.
2026-11-02 03:09:26
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Natalie :
I married him and didn’t realize he was an avoidant 🙃 he had an affair and I found out and confronted him, he left me
2026-11-01 18:48:54
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nottherighttype :
I was a late bloomer and had my first relationship in my late 20s. And it was with a fearful avoidant. I struggled with body imagine and my ex knew that but still managed to use my body as a reason he wasn’t attracted to me after pursuing me, it was horrific.
2026-11-02 00:46:50
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MAYLIN :
Yep! Starting nit picking!
2026-11-01 23:28:16
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desimperfect :
This is more so DA behavior.
2026-11-01 22:51:05
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Lanre :
he created reasons (that he never shared with me) to why we should not be together anymore. now he is in a new relationship
2026-11-02 10:45:04
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Beautifiedbyjulia :
My husband, of 17 years, happened 2 days ago. He is so unbothered by it all.
2026-11-02 04:23:31
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