@questhubwithqueentosin: My brother’s wife discovered that he has another child and wants to leave him. My parents are begging me to convince her to stay for the children’s sake. Should I intervene or let her make her own decision? Please like and comment 🙏#ConSantanderConecto
do not interfere. infidelity is very hard to forgive.
2026-11-01 22:56:10
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Terry :
That would be totally up to them. I would stay out of that all together.
2026-11-01 22:50:31
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Village Traveler :
or was a child conceived before they met. did he know about this child and actively hide it
2026-11-02 00:01:37
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sabrinathomas412 :
Stay out of it, your sister in law don't want to hear your advice or conviction in making her stay. Your brother's deception and extra martial activities created his problems.
If your sister in law forgives and stay or file for dissolution , let it be her decision. She'll question intentions if your family or yourself intervenes
2026-11-01 21:34:28
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playfullgirl2022 :
Stay out of it. Trust me I’ve been there
2026-11-01 23:54:40
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user2378139931749 :
Do not become involved as you don’t know what their decision will be.
2026-11-01 23:52:24
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C :
Another ch…so his kids have a half sibling. Where there’s one….its dang sad!
2026-11-01 23:45:20
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Michelle Rodriguez :
Stay out of it and be there if the wife needs to talk, but don’t take sides. If he had another child out of their relationship, he is the problem in this situation. The wife should be able to make the choice to leave without feeling guilty.
2026-11-01 23:09:08
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Chuck farlie :
he made his mess let him clean it up
2026-11-01 20:51:41
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Maddy :
She needs to leave for her kids sake. If she stays then her kids will think that's appropriate behavior for a married couple.
2026-11-01 21:29:38
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Cathy :
if the husband is out there cheating. the kids are better off without him
2026-11-01 22:46:28
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Kelpie 365 :
She needs to leave him.
2026-11-01 22:48:57
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alicecamiso :
STAY OUT OF IT!!
2026-11-01 22:02:18
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Debby House :
Her own decision but let her talk it out. She’s the one that will live with her choice. Pray first!
2026-11-01 22:35:45
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MeanNana :
STAY OUT OF PEOPLES BUSINESS!!!
2026-11-01 21:00:05
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user4628305536116 :
You could talk to her and just listen. At the end of the day it’s her decision and probably doesn’t need another opinion as much as a friend.
2026-11-01 22:27:49
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maru :
Don’t get involved
2026-11-01 22:24:07
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Chazee Redrum :
Never get n da middle
2026-11-01 22:11:22
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grandma_cindyy :
her life
2026-11-01 21:08:52
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billb :
why should she stay with someone who only feels contempt for his wife. who doesn't love her and disrespects her.
2026-11-01 21:17:02
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stacijuststaci❌ :
You need to stay out of it. If that child was born after they married, your SIL has to decide if he is worth forgiving. If you interfere it could make things worse.
2026-11-02 00:27:56
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Raptor_2003 :
That entirely depends on the circumstances of how this child came to be.
2026-11-02 00:42:27
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PinkSheep :
It’s a personal decision on the person that’s involved. 1. did he know he had a child before they got married and kept it from her. That’s a pretty big deception and then not paying child support because she would have to know if he was paying child support. 2. Did he find out after they got married? That’s a different. If he didn’t know, until after the fact, I’m pretty sure she knew he wasn’t a virgin. Most Americans aren’t. I take that back today. You Younger generation are different. 3. did he have a child while they were married? Betrayal. So it’s not a simple question you can answer that’s why it’s her decision. Deception about a child is pretty big because what else are you deceiving her about? Find finding out he had a child before you got married is totally different. And then of course, betrayal it’s just the worst type of thing ever.
2026-11-02 00:47:20
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gezairadilan :
Thats a problem between husband and wife. You can still be there for her if you both had a good relationship. Those kids are still part of the family
2026-11-02 00:29:04
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Oneida :
Nope not your business
2026-11-01 21:08:26
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