@annaekblom_:

Jake :

No! Emotional intelligence is something none of you will ever understand. Emotional intelligence is seeing your country destroyed time and time again by colonial powers after your oil and resources and labelling you as "evil terrorists" for not bending over and freely giving it all....and then like your boyfriend/fiancé moving to Sweden and every single day smiling and saying "ingen fara" all is great! And what did your boyfriend do....he got a job .. assimilated and got you and is treating you like a princess right? But do you know how powerful his emotional intelligence is? No...I doubt it.